07 Apr

Connecting With Seniors – Quarantine is not the last word.

By Stephen Chavez for Adventist Review

By now they’re familiar: video images of people—neighbors, families, coworkers—showing up outside someone’s window to offer well-wishes, and, in one case, to celebrate the 100th birthday of a woman who was isolated because of the COVID-19 virus. These are extraordinary times for all of us, but for seniors it’s especially challenging.

My 92-year-old dad lives in a retirement community on the opposite side of the country from where I live. When I contacted him a few weeks ago for our weekly visit via Facetime, his first words were: “I’ve been quarantined!”

Compared to many, my dad is in a good place. True, he’s supposed to stay in his one-bedroom apartment. And when he walks the hall (to get his mail, for example), he’s supposed to stay at least six feet away from anyone he might meet. But his meals are delivered to his room in disposable containers and left on a stool just outside his door three times day; someone comes to clean his apartment once a week; and he’s been assured that the facility’s employees are monitored to make sure that none of them carry the coronavirus.

But the facility has temporarily banned outside visitors, and forbidden its residents from going outside, where they might be exposed to the virus.

For a guy who’s used to visiting with friends in the dining room, participating in weekly Bible studies and vesper services, going on outings to shop, and taking the shuttle to church once a week, he finds this rather confining.

We can only imagine the hardships encountered by other families. I know a woman who now finds herself unable to visit her husband of more than 60 years. The woman’s husband, in the final stages of Parkinson’s disease, is descending into advanced dementia. She worries that he will not understand her failure to make her usual daily visits. The very idea that he should pass away alone, without her having a chance to say goodbye, causes her sleepless nights.

Some facilities allow families to visit those in hospice care. But many patients linger, well enough to be cheered by family members or friends who are now prohibited from visiting.

We understand that these are unprecedented times and conditions. When we reflect that some of the largest concentrated outbreaks of the disease have been in facilities that house seniors, we have to appreciate the somewhat severe measures being taken.

But what can we do? Is there no recourse other than to just stand by and watch it happen?

We can act.

First, we can support those whose concern about a loved one they can’t visit is palpable. With phone calls, e-mails, and cards, we can communicate our solidarity with them in their struggle. But instead of offering trite clichés, let’s provide willing ears to listen to their fears without judgment. More than advice, such individuals need empathy and someone to lean on.

Second, if those in isolation are cogent and functional, we can send cards and make phone calls. Situations vary from person to person, but opportunities to extend the love of Christ in some form or fashion are available for those willing to think outside the box.

Third, we can orchestrate some public demonstration—a mini-concert, pep rally, or exhibition—in front of a window where those who are confined can enjoy the spectacle. Always obey the instructions of local health officials regarding groups and distances, but COVID-19 is no match for community spirit.

In a few weeks or months we’ll be on the other side of this crisis. Let’s make sure that, as far as possible, we all make it through together.

Stephen Chavez is assistant editor of the Adventist Review

“This article was originally published on AdventistReview.org

06 Apr

PASTORAL LEADERSHIP IN A PANDEMIC

Message from Daniel R Jackson 

Columbia, Maryland … Pastors, I want to express appreciation to each of you for what you are doing to support people in your communities through this stressful unprecedented pandemic.

COVID-19 has impacted every church in the North American Division including yours. The North American Division and the General Conference are abiding by the directions of governments to protect the health and safety of citizens. We have gone virtual and we ask you to do the same.

This is a moral and ethical issue.  Social distancing, shelter in place, and bans on public gatherings are not religious freedom issues, rather they are public health issues.  It doesn’t exercise common sense when some churches put people’s health and life at risk by continuing to violate government health orders. We need to do all we can to participate in the protection of the health and safety of those around us including ourselves.

Yet in the fog of this crisis loom great ministry opportunities. I am simply thrilled at the creativity and agility of our pastors as you and your congregations are discovering how to meet the needs of your community.  You are leaving notes on the doors of your neighbors asking if they need help. You have opened up food distribution centers. I believe in future days your congregations will find even more safe, innovative, and compassionate ways to be the virtual hands and feet of Jesus.

Please know that I am praying that God will bless you. These are difficult times and you know the saying ‘that when the going gets tough, the tough get going.’ And God will bless your leadership as you place your hand in His and continue to innovate for the cause.

Daniel L. Jackson is President of the North American Division of the Seventh-day Adventist Church

Editor’s note: This article is an excerpt from a live presentation that Dan Jackson gave to pastors during the March 27 ‘Ministry in a Pandemic’ virtual conference. It was first published in Best Practices in Adventist Ministry. You can view the entire presentation here.

06 Apr

RETHINKING CHURCH

An Open Letter to Pastors 

An appeal to keep your pajamas on and rethink church

Last weekend I watched so many of you move quickly to a virtual church format. The speed and efficiency with which you were able to pull things together was impressive. Some of you even had to quickly learn new technologies to overcome some hi-tech hurdles in order to pull off a live worship service.

After watching numerous services (I am an admitted church junkie), I couldn’t help feeling that something was missing. Something huge was missing from the worship experiences.

We are facing an unprecedented time where all of the rules are being tossed out, and we must now adjust to a new reality.

While we were lying on our couches, watching you on the internet in our pajamas, you were standing in a vacant church, behind a pulpit, preaching in your Sunday best.

Sadly, to many it probably felt inauthentic. We are not looking for the same worship experience, because we are not living in the same world from two weeks ago.

If you want to be effective, your sermon and worship services must adapt to the times in which we are living. Preaching to an empty church full of pews appears cold and disingenuous.

Last week, while I was watching a sermon, my eleven-year-old daughter came downstairs drowning in one of my blazers. She had an oversized Bible in her hand. When I questioned what she was doing, she laughed and said, “I am practicing a sermon that I am planning for my friends.” That is when it hit me. It appears like Pastors are “playing” church, instead of adapting to how church is currently evolving.

Here are four suggestions I want to propose as you think about crafting the church service over the coming months.

Make virtual home visits. Yesterday I received a phone call from our family pastor. She was calling to check on us and see how we are coping with the pandemic. This phone call was a virtual pastoral visit. * The church is about relationships. Many of your members may have lost their jobs; they are running out of money; they are experiencing overwhelming stress with the kids at home. Most pastors have an average of 30 families in their congregation. How hard would it be to schedule some visits? Please call your church members and pray for them over the phone. **

Lose the tie and pulpit. Last week, my friend Rick, invited his church members to join him via zoom. Even though I am not a member, I joined in to watch his sermon. Pastor Johns discarded his previously planned sermon and preached a new message about lessons he has learned during this pandemic. He spoke casually–no tie, no church podium. He spoke from his home, just like the rest of his members. *** We are living in drastic times. You don’t need to pull together a full worship service. Don’t make your members voyeurs—plan for us to participate with you.

Employ your volunteers. Last Friday, I attempted to call a friend on the phone. He said, “I can’t talk,” I am preparing for the youth Sabbath School lesson.” He explained that they were going to have an online bible study using zoom technology. Later I learned that every one of the Bible classes, from toddler to adults, had virtual class meetings led by volunteers. ****

Provide resources to the community. My wife volunteers with a food distribution group in our community. This initiative is a grassroots program, led by a local teacher. Guess what they need this week? Six-foot-long tables. They need about eight of them to disperse throughout the city. Guess who has all of the tables stored in their churches? This is the time to live out the mission of the church.

Finally, I want to thank you for stepping up and adapting so quickly. We are not going back to normal any time soon, so please become a modern missionary and involve your members to contextualize the gospel during these changing times.

Kumar Dixit is a former pastor and current know-it-all. [This article was published on his Facebook page, April 3, 2020]

Notes:

*Pastor Marilyn Scott is our family pastor at New Hope Church. Check out what they are doing for kids and families. newhopefulton.org/children.

**I love how Cesar Gonzalez is offering daily prayer for anyone who wants to join him via Facebook Live.

***Click below to read about Rick L Johns experience in his own words and what he did to improve his zoom sermons. http://www.nadministerial.com/stories/2020/4/1/sermon-delivery-on-zoom-make-it-interesting?utm_source=Best+Practices+for+Adventist+Worship%2C+April+2%2C+2020&utm_campaign=BP+April+2&utm_medium=email

**** The Southern Asian Church https://www.facebook.com/SASDAC.Church/ is involving their volunteers better than anyone I know.

06 Apr

RMC PASTORAL MINISTRY IN TIME OF SOCIAL DISTANCING

By Mickey Mallory–Denver, Colorado … While some things have been suspended because of the COVID-19 pandemic, ministry for our RMC pastors continues, albeit, done differently. Below are some examples of the innovation of our pastors during this trying time.

Mark Monreal from the Riverton District in Wyoming says that to stay connected with his members, he calls them, sends text messages, and invites them to connect through Facebook. He posts live worship services online and he and his family can be seen leading out in song. One of their biggest challenges, he says, is helping the elderly members who need support and supplies. To care for them, he calls to ask what help he can provide and then coordinates with members who are able to help them. Several of his members are attending to the needs of people in their community. They raised funds to provide food supplies for members in the Philippines, which included nearly 40 families and 25 students.

When asked what encouraging words he has for his fellow brothers and sisters living in RMC, he said, “This crisis may have caused social distancing, but it has also brought us closer to other people around the world and it gives us an opportunity to spread more of God’s Word.”

Juan Estrada from the Colorado Springs Hispanic District shared that he calls his members, sends them messages of hope, and prays for them. He records sermons for online viewing for Wednesdays, Fridays, and Saturdays. In addition, he organizes a prayer conference on Wednesdays and Sundays. The biggest challenge facing his members right now is keeping the faith and not losing hope. He encourages them to hang in there because he believes with much encouragement, and lots of faith and hope that the pandemic will soon end, and they will be able to worship together again. His Colorado Springs Church is involved in a plan to provide help to the homeless through their food bank. They are currently providing food on the first Saturday of each month to a group of 200 people in a shelter in Colorado Springs.

Wilmer Martinez from the Pagosa Springs Hispanic District in Colorado calls his members to see how they’re doing and if they need anything. He lets them know he is there for them in these uncertain times. Despite wanting to see them in person, he reminds them often of the importance of staying home. One of his biggest challenges is in the area of communication. Since not all of his members are familiar with technology, he does meetings using both Zoom and phone call, so both groups’ needs can be met. He encourages his members to check on their neighbors.

When asked what encouraging words he has for his fellow brothers and sisters living in RMC, he says, “Jesus is coming soon and this all should pass, and soon we will be home with Him for eternity.”

Lester Bentley from the Sheridan District in Wyoming said that to stay connected with his members, he is talking with his elders three or four times a week and calling his members throughout the day. So far, among his five churches, he has probably talked to 70 per cent of his members, including a few who have not attended church in quite some time. Using his computer, he has started a midweek video devotional and a Friday night devotional which he calls Friday Sundown Worship.

One of his challenges is not having all of his members on Facebook. In order to help those who are not Facebook people, he set up a YouTube channel called Mountain View Sermons.  He uses this to teach Sabbath School each week. In order to meet the physical and spiritual needs of the communities he serves, his churches have helped members that need assistance buying or getting food and other necessary items. They have either supplied money or picked up the needed items and delivered them. Gillette has helped several individuals from the community. Sheridan and all five churches will be participating in the It Is Written online evangelistic series that is starting April 17.

His words of encouragement for RMC members are, “Perhaps what we are seeing is just the tip of the iceberg. Perhaps it will be the catalyst for sweeping changes in the world. Some for good and probably more that are not so good. But God has promised, “Lo I am with you always even until the end of the world” (Matthew 28:20). This promise is just as relevant for us today.”

Bob McAlpine from the Alamosa District in Colorado says he maintains connection with his members through social media and increased phone conversations. One of the challenges that he has experienced is keeping his church members together during the crisis. Video conferencing, phone calls, and email all help, but can’t replace physical presence. On top of that, some of his older members do not have the internet, which makes it harder to stay in touch. Fortunately, his elders have stepped up to reach out to the older or more vulnerable members as well as keeping in touch with one another and the rest of the congregation. In order to help those struggling in the community, he shared that members are supporting the local homeless shelter while others are actively participating in the public health response.

His message to RMC members is, “Even if this crisis took us by surprise, it has not caught God off guard. Our confidence does not come from health and prosperity in this life, but from the hope that we will share eternity with Father, Son, and Holy Spirit when Jesus returns and puts an end to sickness, sin, and death. Whether we are facing anxiety about health issues, financial issues, or political issues, let’s look to Jesus for peace and reassurance.”

Wayne Nazarenus from the Colorado Springs South Church District in Colorado shared that he makes a point to call and check on his members. On Sabbath, March 20, he called every church family in his two churches and read a Scripture and prayed with them by phone and they responded very positively. On top of this, his head elder in Trinidad set up a phone conference call for the worship service. He had 28 people call in and other family members were most likely listening on the speaker phone. This is almost twice the number of people who come to church on a Sabbath morning. A number of people called who are not able to attend church because of health and age.

About a week ago, he and his wife were walking in their neighborhood and noticed many cars around one of their elderly neighbor’s home. He talked with two of the young sons who were standing outside and found out that their mother had died. They are Catholic but appreciated him stopping and sharing his concern. They were trying to figure out how they could have a proper funeral. We have also visited outside with several other neighbors on our walks in the neighborhood.

These stories have a common thread – the pastors and church members are working together for ministry to continue during this difficult time.

While we wait for the glorious coming of Jesus Christ, may we all find ways to work together in our local church to advance His message of love and healing to a hurting world.

Mickey Mallory, RMC ministerial director; photo by Rajmund Dabrowski

06 Apr

COMMENTARY: STUCK IN THE HOUSE

Growing up at the southwest tip of Lake Michigan, just about a mile from the shoreline, I had my share of snow days. My brothers and I took full advantage of the snow in every imaginable way, while my mother baked sugar cookies for us to decorate. We played board games and built puzzles and read books and reveled in not being at school. In a day or two, we were back in class, much to the relief of my mother.

Now, it feels like I’m having endless snow days, only without the sugar cookies and snow forts. I’m still working a full week, but rarely go in to the office. I transact real estate by computer, keep in touch with colleagues by text message, and have meetings through various programs available on my laptop. I’m tired of it, and I suspect you are as well.

I miss just walking into someone’s office to ask a question. I miss restaurants. And even when I do get out to a grocery store, it’s an eerie experience, with shelves emptied of critical supplies, people wearing masks, and everyone on edge as we move carefully to maintain a “safe” distance.

And I really, really miss church. I get my sermon every week, but it’s not the same. I can tell you from years of experience in the pulpit that a sermon is an interactive experience. You can feel the congregation going through the message with you, and when I see a speaker who is clearly alone in front of a camera, I know they are missing the feedback. For all they know I’m eating pistachios and spitting the hulls into a vase. I’d rather be there in person to feel, as well as hear, a good message.

I feel too silly singing along with the praise leaders, their I-phone sending out the video from their living room, he at the piano and she harmonizing. They are talented, I am not, and I don’t have a congregation to cover up my caterwauling so I just wait it out.

Even the prayer is awkward. It may be in real time, but if I’m not in the room with them, I don’t get the same connection.

You don’t know how important community is to you until you don’t have it. Work, shopping and church are all out of sync, and I don’t like it. I still work because I need to, and I still shop because I have to get stuff. But church is different. I still go to church online because I want it, I need it, and the barriers that make it feel strange can’t keep me from it.

The truth is, as much as I loved snow days, I was always ready to head back to school when the weather permitted. And I still cherish an unexpected day off from work, but I will be so glad to get back to the office routine when this is over.

And oh, how much I will be happy to get back to church. Whether I’m in the pulpit or the pew that first Sabbath back, I am going to praise God that I can get back to worship the way I enjoy, with real handshakes and all of us singing and a genuinely interactive sermon. How much I miss the community it gives me!

Right now, though, please take a minute to reflect on something: There are people in your church who miss it every week. They used to be there, but age and infirmity caught up with them, and against their wishes they are homebound on Sabbath mornings. They can catch a sermon online, but it’s not a substitute for being with people to praise God in His sanctuary. What you feel now, they feel regularly, and it’s not going to change in a few weeks or months. This is their life.

So, when you get back, rejoice! But also remember those who can’t get back. Pay a visit to someone who longs for the community we all used to take for granted.

Doug Inglish, RMC Planned Giving and Trust Services director; photo by Rajmund Dabrowski

02 Apr

RMC Day of Fasting and Prayer April 4, 2020

Denver, Colorado … What’s special about this Sabbath? All around Rocky Mountain Conference members are joining in the RMC Day of Fasting and Prayer. While we may be physically distanced, our hearts are together, interceding for all of our RMC members and beyond.

In addition to the ways you pray with your local church, RMC Prayer Ministries invites you to join a conference-wide prayer gathering twice, 8-9am and 6:30-7:30pm via ZOOM. Click this link to join: https://rmcsda.link/rmcdayofprayer

We’re happy to offer you a prayer guide with helpful suggestions and prayer points https://www.rmcsda.org/3d-flip-book/short-form-prayer-guide-for-2-chron-20-jehoshaphat/

Helpful tips for fasting can be found here: https://www.rmcsda.org/3d-flip-book/rmc-day-of-prayer-and-fasting-helpful-tips/

Here’s a prayer activity for young children https://www.rmcsda.org/3d-flip-book/prayer-story-activity-for-children-based-on-2-chronicles-20/

And thanks to RMC Youth for this activity for older kids/teens! https://www.rmcsda.org/3d-flip-book/rmc-youth-prayer-activity/

Apart, yet together in prayer: RMC – Let’s PRAY!

DeeAnn Bragaw; photo by Ben White on Unsplash

02 Apr

Finding Sweet Spot of Balance

Right off the bat, I’m going to be quite honest with you all in regards to how I’ve been living my life. I am a  type A person who is “go! go! go!” until there is no more mental energy to “go” anywhere else. To be transparent with you, I feel as if this way of living has been rubbing like sandpaper on my soul. I swing the pendulum back and forth so forcefully and rapidly that I’m either going at one hundred percent or in recovery. Since graduating college, I have yet to find that sweet spot of balance in between doing everything and doing nothing.

There are countless cons created by the novel COVID-19, my phone is sure to remind me of that every hour, but my goodness have I found a pro!

When business was as usual in Colorado during November 2019, my husband, Kiefer, and I began listening to audiobooks whenever we were driving in the car together. We had long been anticipating one of our favorite pastors, John Mark Comer’s, new book The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry. Ten minutes into this book we had to hit pause and sit there soaking in the words that rang all too true for both of us. We were hurried, rushed, overwhelmed people and that is not the way of Jesus. I would like to say this book shook me enough to radically apply it to my life, but it didn’t at least not completely. Events still needed to be planned, materials still needed to be created, staff still needed to be hired, spreadsheets still needed data, and I still felt the need to find meaning in what I could do.

Fast forward to March 2020, business is not as usual in Colorado. Church buildings are closed with worship offered virtually, restaurants are closed, offices are virtual, students are distance learning, and the future is uncertain. Amazingly, this crazy time has forced me to slow down. There is still so much work to be done, but it seems more manageable. My schedule is mine to create. There’s no such thing as being “too busy” to spend quality time in prayer or to go for a walk.

While all might not be right in the world, I encourage you to find that silver lining. To reclaim your schedule, to reclaim your family, your relationship with Jesus, your life!! Use this opportunity of minimal distractions to set aside deliberate time with God each day, make meals that will bless your body, exercise, get some fresh air, have meaningful conversations with your family and friends. Use this time to feel more like a human being. God created you to enjoy life, to create, to be filled with joy and peace!

Someday, hopefully soon, COVID-19 will be our history and not our present. Life will gradually return to a new normal. So, what will your new normal be?

I leave you with these words from Commer: “Should you enlist in the war on hurry, remember what’s at stake. You’re not just fighting for a good life, but for a good soul. So, dear reader and friend, you, like me, must make a decision. Not just when your own fork-in-the-road kind of midlife crisis comes (and it will come), but every day. How will you live?” (The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry, p. 255).

–Jessyka Dooley, RMC Assistant Youth Director

02 Apr

DIGITAL RESOURCES: ONLINE WORSHIP TOOLS FROM ADVENTIST LEARNING COMMUNITY

Columbia, Maryland … The widespread closings experienced and calls for social distancing throughout the world due to COVID-19 are unprecedented.

But Matthew 18:20 reminds us that “For where two or three have gathered together in My name, I am there in their midst.” We are in this together, and the Holy Spirit assures us we are never alone.

The church is not a building, it’s a people. And the Sabbath is not a destination, it’s a place in time that comes to everyone regardless of physical location. The North American Division has gathered and will continue to gather and produce new resources and content to help our church community come together for worship in the digital space.

Adventist Learning Community has created a portal with large collection of resources. Please check back regularly for updates.

See online worship tools now.

02 Apr

CAMPION CLASS OF 2020: IS OUR PERFECT VISION LOST?

Loveland, Colorado … I remember being in fourth grade and counting on my fingers to see what year I would graduate: 2020. Perfect vision, I remember thinking. Now, with the coronavirus causing so much uncertainty, the year of “perfect vision” seems ironic. Too often, I hear people say my class is special to be part of such a huge world event; the first senior class ever to experience a worldwide pandemic such as this.

This, however, is not the first historical milestone the class of 2020 has seen. The year we were born, the world grieved the attack on 9/11, and we will be the last graduating class to have been alive for that infamous day. When we were six years old, the first iPhone was released. When we were five, Facebook was available, and by the time we were in fifth grade, Instagram was popular. The first black president of the United States was elected when we were in first grade. Throughout our lives, school shootings have been a constant threat. We saw the rise of the #metoo and #blacklivesmatter movements. Our freshman year began with the election of Donald Trump. The end of our senior year is marked by COVID-19.

This latest event in our lives has derailed all the plans we have been making the past four years. Being a senior stinks right now, and although we will always be known as the class that had our senior year stolen from us, I hope that we will also be known for our ability to adapt to life’s challenges.

The world we will join after graduation is vastly different from the world we were born into, but all the changes we have seen in our lifetime have helped to prepare us for the many curves life will throw at us. The class of 2020 may not have a perfect vision of the future, but we can see how to rise above the challenges that come our way.

Ashley Herber, Student Editor, This Week at Campion; photo supplied

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