01 Apr

LESSONS ON ENVIRONMENT IN OUR PARKS

By Carol Bolden

During our travels across America over the past six months, we’ve observed the tremendous diversity our country displays. With time in our pockets, able to travel back roads instead of highways, we’ve seen a decidedly beautiful country of buffalo herds, sunflower fields, meandering rivers, wild horses, flaming sunsets, wide-open spaces, majestic peaks, lush trees, sparkling lakes, breathtaking views, bald eagles, charming islands, and snow-capped peaks, testifying to its abundant beauty.

Observations about the state of our environment, though not scientifically based, do prove factual after a little research. In spite of its beauty, there are signs of an environment negatively impacted by man, its seldom-faithful guardian. While state and national parks appear well-cared-for, they face complex issues not easily remedied.

What we’ve noticed: Bugs and birds are diminishing at a tremendous rate. The bugs we remember as children that caked our windshields during travel, are scant today. So are birds. Karin Brullllard tells us in her September 2019 Washington Post article that North America has lost three billion birds in 53 years, representing hundreds of species. Birds, a well-monitored species, are like the canaries in coal mines— harbingers of danger. Today, they warn of a wider environ- mental dis-ease. Other creatures are thought to be fading, are more challenging to count.

Douglas Main tells us in his February 2019 National Geo- graphic article that insect populations really are plummeting. A new study suggests that 40 percent of insect species are in decline, among them Monarch butterflies that winter in the Chincua Mountains in Mexico, who have declined because of land-use changes, and bees who are facing collapse from a variety of causes.

Having spent several years as an amateur beekeeper, I’ve suffered the loss of entire colonies due to mites, pesticides, and/or inexperience. My loss was minuscule compared to what’s happening in the wider environment. Around 2007, beekeepers in the United States raised the alarm that thousands of their hives were mysteriously empty of bees. This new phenomenon, colony collapse disorder, led to a global concern. The U.S. alone lost more than 28 percent of colonies during the 2015-16 winter, a loss which has not abated.

Fruits and vegetables, important components of our diet, depend on bee pollination for reproduction. At least 30 per- cent of the world’s crops and 90 percent of all plants require cross-pollination to spread and thrive according to one gar- den magazine. Follow this train of thought to its end and you can see the precarious place our world is in.

Pesticides are being used indiscriminately, negatively affecting human, vegetable, and animal health. In several populated areas, we’ve seen pesticides used to keep weeds at bay. Most recently, we’ve witnessed the spraying of pesticides in flower beds and gravel areas near where we’re parked in Benson, Arizona. The pesticide used is most likely Round-up, one currently under fire for its cancer-causing ingredients.

“Excessive use of pesticides may lead to the destruction of biodiversity. Many birds, aquatic organisms and animals are under the threat of harmful pesticides for their survival. Pesticides are a concern for sustainability of environment and global stability,” say Mahmood, etc. in Effects of Pesticides on Environment from March 2016.

A 2010 study by S.A. Rogers discovered that pesticides travel up the food chain straight into our national parks. The study he reported found pesticides originating from as far away as Asia in eight Western U.S. national parks including Sequoia, Glacier and Rocky Mountain. As a global community, we have failed our heavenly dictate to care for the earth.

The delicate balance of nature is being challenged out of convenience, ignorance, greed, and neglect. God’s chosen gardeners have been weighed and found wanting. One day, this world will be re-made into its original state. As we wait for that day, let’s go the extra mile to take care of our world by educating ourselves on how we can best care for our state and national parks. For help, go to www.doyourpartparks.org.

–Carol Bolden is traveling through the United States in a motorhome with her husband Thom. Read her blog: https://outlookmag.org/off-to-see-america-traveling-by-motorhome/. She was communication assistant at RMC until her retirement in August 2019. Email her at: [email protected]

01 Apr

A CASE OF DENIAL

By Becky De Oliveira

As a child, I was routinely taught that scientists were most just “guessing” about their theories. “They have to have faith just as much as we do,” teachers and other adults said. These adults made scientific-sounding arguments for a young earth, evolution being the primary scientific theory they were eager to debunk. When my children were in elementary school, they came home telling me they’d been informed that dinosaur bones had been placed in the earth by Satan himself, to trick us and cause us to lose our faith.

“Interesting,” I said. “That certainly is a theory.”

My oldest son has gone on to study environmental earth science at university—basically, geology. This sits uncomfortably with certain Adventist church members who raise their eyebrows and cluck about the “dangers” involved in studying earth science.

What are those dangers?

I suppose the primary danger is that increased knowledge would lead to a corresponding and highly correlated decrease in faith. That is possible. But as many a wise person before me has pointed out, faith that is untested is not faith at all. Faith based on ignorance is what, exactly?

Skepticism toward the scientific community has led to some foolish and destructive behavior by individuals and leaders, in this country and many others. How many out- breaks of measles have resulted from an insistence—against overwhelming consensus to the contrary from the medical community—that the MMR vaccine is responsible for autism? It is interesting that so many people are convinced of the likelihood that doctors, medical researchers, and other experts are conspiring to cause harm to millions of people (for profit perhaps)—but that the sources they trust that call these experts’ claims into question are blameless and trustworthy with no ulterior agendas whatsoever. Why would that be the case?

Sometimes it is easy enough to see why people reject evidence they don’t like. Certain discoveries may “touch on people’s lifestyle or world-views, or impinge on corporate interests” (Lewandowsky & Oberaur, 2016). Other times rejection of science appears to be an identity-based decision, a sort of tribal impulse. Perhaps alignment against a much-hated political party?

One interesting factor with climate change denial is its association with low tolerance for ambiguity (Jessani & Harris, 2018). The science surrounding climate change is complicated and messy and contains a high level of complexity. People with low tolerance for ambiguity like familiar explanations and black-and-white conclusions.

I am reminded of a person who wrote to me about a year ago complaining that I raise unsettling questions in my writing and, at that time, on the podcast I co-hosted. She did not want to think about hard or uncomfortable things. And fair enough. It’s a free world. But it’s also a complicated world and it won’t get any easier from our collective refusal to see problems. If we truly have faith, perhaps it’s time to stop being so afraid of what we may see if we look.

–Becky De Oliveira is a doctoral student in research methods at the University of Northern Colorado in Greeley and is a member of Boulder Adventist Church. Email her at: [email protected]

References

Jessani, Z., & Harris, P. B. (2018). Personality, politics, and denial: Tolerance of ambiguity, political orientation and disbelief in climate change. Personality and Individual Differences, 131, 121-123.  Lewandowsky, S., & Oberauer, K. (2016). Motivated rejection of science. Current Directions in Psychological Science, 25(4), 217–222.

01 Apr

CLEARING THE RUINS OF MY CITY

By Rajmund Dabrowski

Just like the Seneca,
I have lost my place.
And where I’ve been planted now, Soon will be shakin’ . . .
Too soon tomorrow will come.
—Brewer and Shipley

Sidewalk encounter

A family of four walked out of a store. It just happened that I caught up with them as they crossed the street toward their parked car. The father tore up a receipt, I assumed, and threw it on the sidewalk. In a split second, I could not help but to approach him and say, “Sir, I think you dropped something.”

His reaction stunned me. He bent over and picked up the smithereens while the family watched. Then smiling, he reacted, saying, “Thank you. Yes, these were mine. I am sorry.”

Even today, I reflect that his reaction was one of many he could have chosen. Our city was saved from the wind carrying the trash in odd directions. The lesson, I conclude, was most useful to his two young kids.

Living in a culture of consumerism and junk, many of us have views on why our neighborhoods are littered with trash. We may recall being scolded by parents when throwing an apple core on the ground. To be forgiven once did not mean avoiding being lectured in the future about keeping a clean environment and the consequences of disobedience.

Diploma for recycling

My unforgotten moment of environmental conscience happened in grade school. It all goes back some 60 years to the streets of downtown Warsaw when I visited local editorial and printing establishments to solicit donations of print paper to be thrown away. Today, a reminder hangs on the wall—a diploma signed by a principal and a PTA president. It states that I am commended for “very good results in collecting paper recyclables for the school year 1960-1961.” Nostalgia is taking me to the day when in front of the entire school I was singled out for such an accolade. It feels good, though.

Clearing the ruins

The second reminder of my personal environmental activism is a high school experience a few years later when our class of 35 participated in a “civic duty” day challenging us to clean the rubble of a ruined Krasinski Square in Warsaw, a reminder of WWII. I recall getting involved once a month and picking up bricks and loading barrels with dirt. Walking by the square several years later, I was proud to have had a little part in making the city beautiful again.

Caring for Mother Earth

Today, it’s not so much clearing the ruins of a post-war destroyed city. It’s about halting global warming, battling for clean air and unpolluted water. It’s about protecting the forests, wetlands, or a disappearing rare animal species. It’s also about saying no to unquenched exploitation of earth’s resources, unbridled over-consumption and production of waste. It’s about being inspired by a teenager, Greta Thun- berg, or a stalwart protector of animals, Jane Goodall, or vice president Al Gore. Their messages are as challenging as the call of scores of environmental scientists, going through our daily activities to protect the clean and tidy surroundings, caring for God’s planet, our Mother Earth.

Beautiful temples

Never to be forgotten was a conversation with Caridad del Rosario Diego Bello, director of Havana’s Office of Religious Affairs, during a trip to Cuba with the Maranatha Volunteers International team. She remarked that when you see a beautiful, freshly-painted building in one of our towns, it is a Seventh-day Adventist temple.

It should make us proud to see our churches well looked after, no matter whether you see them in Africa, Asia or America. And hopefully it should make us cringe to see the unkempt lawns and peeling paint of a church sign, or plastic bags blown against a church wall.

Seventh-day Adventists are not called to passively wait till the end of the world. Along with scores of our fellow humans, we can conclude that it is man who is destroying the world by his irresponsibility toward the earth and its inhabitants. Yet, we recognize that the end will come about by the direct intervention of a supernatural force. We are reminded, again and again: “The nations raged, but your wrath came, and the time for the dead to be judged, and for rewarding your servants, the prophets and saints, and those who fear your name, both small and great, and for destroy- ing the destroyers of the earth” (Revelation 11:18, ESV).

God created beautiful people for a beautiful earth. When God created, He liked what He saw. He “placed the man in the Garden of Eden to tend and care for it.” So, what are we admonished to do today?

–Rajmund Dabrowski is RMC communication director and editor of Mountain Views. Email him at: [email protected].

01 Apr

ENJOYING GOD’S CREATION

By Eric Nelson

At creation, God placed Adam and Eve in a perfect environment, the Garden of Eden. “Then the LORD God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to tend and keep it.” (Genesis 2:15). God created the ideal setting full of wonders to experience and by which to be inspired. The lush garden setting must have been an amazing and gratifying experience. On every hand were reminders of their Creator God and His character. He made all this for them to enjoy and to provide them with inspiration.

Adam and Eve must have felt awe and amazement, wonder and appreciation for this incredible environment that God created just for their pleasure and enjoyment.

We, as Adventist Christians, of all people, should be able to resonate with Adam and Eve since we live here in Colorado, Wyoming, and New Mexico. People come from all over the world to see this area, to enjoy our mountains and incredible scenery. They come to camp, hike, climb, jeep, or to simply drive through the scenic byways and wonder at the beauty. Many visit to enjoy our national parks and wildlife. There’s something special here that beckons us to enjoy this rich experience, where we have the privilege to live and work. We are so very blessed to live here amid the vistas that can draw us even closer to God through the reminders of His creation in the beauty He has placed at our doorstep. We can join David in rejoicing, “The heavens declare the glory of God; the skies proclaim the work of his hands” (Psalm 19:1). Or we can reflect with great understanding on his words in Psalm 121:1-2: “I will lift up my eyes to the hills—From whence comes my help? My help comes from the LORD, who made heaven and earth.” How can we not get up in the morning and view the beauty we live in without being drawn closer to God?

I believe God placed within each of us a hunger for the enjoyment of His second book, nature. There is something healing and restoring about it. Little wonder that there is such an attraction to nature ingrained in our souls. We are nourished and calmed as we experience the natural world around us. Ellen White wrote, “‘God is love’ is written upon every opening bud, upon every spire of springing grass. The lovely birds making the air vocal with their happy songs, the delicately tinted flowers in their perfection perfuming the air, the lofty trees of the forest with their rich foliage of living green— all testify to the tender, fatherly care of our God and to His desire to make His children happy” (Steps to Christ, p. 10).

Into this description of the beauty of our surroundings, let me introduce a disturbing reality. What is your reaction when you see someone tossing trash out of their car window? Or what impression do you have when you hike to a unique and special location and see that overlook littered with water bottles, cans, and trash? The words of Revelation 11:18 come to mind: “The time has come to destroy those who destroy the earth.” Of course, we are to care and look after the wonderful gift that God has given us in creating this world. We ought to be disturbed to see this precious possession abused and mistreated.

We must care and tend this resource and be disturbed when this wonderful creation is trashed and destroyed. But there is a trap that I sometimes find myself slipping into, and to which, perhaps, you are also susceptible. At times I am so busy and focused on work, thoughts, activities, drivers, hurrying to do something, that I don’t even see the beautiful foothills, snow caped peaks or the wonders of God’s creation around me. To ignore this incredible gift is to ignore nature’s way of reminding us of the Creator Himself. Let us not become so busy or allow our senses to become so dulled that we cannot appreciate and see God’s witness to us through His creation.

It is important for us to be blessed and impressed by God through nature. Today, take time to look for His signature and message to you from His incredible gift.

–Eric Nelson is RMC VP for administration. Email him at: [email protected]

31 Mar

RMC Disaster Response to the COVID-19 Pandemic: Are you the light?

Denver, Colorado … I have always enjoyed teaching Kindergarten Sabbath School classes. The children are so excited to sing songs that have actions to them. Remember, “This little light of mine, I’m gonna’ let it shine. This little light of mine, I’m gonna’ let it shine, let it shine, let it shine, let it shine!   Hide it under a bushel, No! I’m gonna’ let it shine.  Hide it under a bushel, No! I’m gonna’ let it shine, let it shine, let it shine, let it shine.

Are you, are we as the church, letting our light shine or are we hiding our lights under a bushel? During a disaster–yes, a pandemic is a disaster–the Seventh-day Adventist Church through the Disaster Response team becomes a beacon in the impacted community. Today, our community, county, state, nation, and world are impacted by the pandemic. Even with social distancing being very necessary how can we, as a church, let our light shine?

The North American Division Community Services Department will be giving the Rocky Mountain Conference a one-time $25,000 grant to be used in purchasing food items for those in need. Does your church have a food pantry? Feed the homeless? Give out Senior boxes? If so, please contact Cathy Kissner at [email protected].

During World War II, homes that had loved ones serving or that were far from home, placed a lighted candle in the window. I have a candle in my window because we are called to be the light on the hill.   We are not to put our light under a bushel, nor to hide in a church building. Christ can lead you to know how and when to shine your light. Trust in Him to guide you and your church. Remember that prayer is the key that opens the door to your light shining.

Cathy Kissner; photo by Anuja Mary Tilj on Unsplash

31 Mar

Teachers and students learn in isolation

Denver, Colorado … I know from personal experience that you are probably getting inundated with information on the coronavirus and the resulting consequences. Many of you with children are having a complete paradigm shift as you assume the role of mentor/teacher for your own children. This is both a blessing and a challenge.

Our Rocky Mountain Conference school teachers have made fantastic efforts to continue with quality education for your children, spending many hours in learning best practices for distance learning and incorporating them into their plans for your children.

Thank you for your continued patience and encouragement as we strive to meet the needs of God’s children in this unique time. Please know that we are doing our very best to assure that your child has optimum opportunity for continued learning at their level. And if you are experiencing some struggles as teacher/mom or teacher/dad, that is okay. You are not alone, and I trust that a few comments from other parents will not only bring you courage but also, perhaps, a smile to your face. From children begging to return to school, to parents admitting they aren’t able to figure out their child’s homework, to knowing how to fill all the hours of the day, to just going stir-crazy, these are the issues parents are facing.

Let me share a few comments that have made the rounds on social media concerning this forced education at home. They have been posted about parents temporarily assuming the role of teacher for their own children.

  • According to one child, homeschooling has not been “going good” from day one. In a post uploaded to Facebook, a mom shared a screenshot of her son’s journal entry from their first day of homeschooling: “It is not going good. My mom’s getting stressed out. My mom is really getting confused,” the eight-year-old student wrote. “We took a break so my mom can figure this stuff out and I’m telling you it is not going good.”
  • I have been homeschooling a 6-year old and an 8-year old for one hour and 11 minutes. Teachers deserve to make a billion dollars a year, or a week.
  • Forty-seven minutes into homeschooling my child while working from home and I’m about to hit the streets demanding teachers be paid a million dollars per year.
  • Yes, I love teachers and respect them sooooo much more–after just one day.
  • My 8-year old is covered in paint and my 17-year old is not speaking to me because this pandemic is ruining her social life and it is obviously my fault.
  • Homeschooling is going well–one student suspended for fighting and one teacher (me) fired for wanting to drink on the job. Easy peasy.
  • My Confident Friend A Week Ago: “I have a schedule. My kids will stay on schedule and their day is very structured with assignments and activities.”
    My Confident Friend Today: “I gave up. Every day is movie day for homeschooling. As long as they’re quiet.”
  • The struggle was enough to prompt one father who has been attempting homeschooling to tweet: “Anyone else think teachers should all earn about $500,000 a year?”
  • Others have also suggested that teachers deserve more money, with some suggesting that their salaries should be somewhere in the $1 million-a-year or higher range for their patience.
  • “If this has taught me anything, it’s that teachers deserve a raise,” one person tweeted.
  • Another said: “Been homeschooling the kids since 9:00am. It’s 9:08 a.m. and I’m starting to think teachers deserve l-o-n-g holidays.”

Apostle Paul in his Letter to the Philippians (4:13) promises that you can “do all things through Christ who gives me strength”.  May you use this time of social distancing and home isolation to do some fun things with your children and perhaps even teach them some things that have, perhaps, been lost in our society. Here are a few ideas: how to make bread, how to sew on a button, how to plant a garden, how to make a card for a shut-in, how to learn about family history?

In the Letter to Romans (8:28) we are also told that “all things work together for good to them that love the Lord.”  Hard to admit, but maybe this pandemic time just might be an opportunity for you and your child to make memories that will last a lifetime and beyond.  Courage to each one!

Lonnie Hetterle, RMC Education Superintendent; photo by Marsha Bartulec

30 Mar

“LORD, GIVE US STRENGTH TO CARRY ON”

Denver, Colorado … The upcoming Special Sabbath, April 4, which was designated for the Rocky Mountain Conference churches as a Day of Fasting and Prayer, received much attention during a weekly consultation of the RMC leadership team. Leaders of the various ministries shared the current needs and plans, which includes dedicated programs to different sections of the church. No changes were made to the closure dates of the offices and churches, though we expect such changes in the future.

Following the meeting, Ed Barnett, RMC president, shared the following message to church members and pastors ahead of the Fasting and Prayer Special Sabbath:

“Seventh-day Adventists are a people of hope. We are awaiting the return of Jesus, but we are a people who live our hope daily. Seeing the suffering around us resulting from the coronavirus COVID-19 pandemic, and anxious about how it is affecting our churches, families, and communities, we recognize that all is in God’s hands. This needs to be recognized by each of us in prayer. A day of fasting and prayer is important for God’s people as it unites us in our supplication and desire for His strength to carry on until the day when there will be no more tears and death.

I am inviting all members of our RMC church to pray. Let us pray to recognize God’s guidance and grace. Let us lift to God prayers of gratitude about the way He has supported us in His mission. Let us pray for those who are hurting, for the families of those who have contracted the virus, and who have passed away. Let us pray that He wipes our tears, but that we do not lose faith and hope in His power to help us overcome fear, pain, and death. Let us pray for those on the front lines – the doctors, nurses, ambulance personnel, security people and decision makers.

But let us also offer our gratitude to the Lord who heals and sustains. We can share with you a story of answered prayer. We learned that one of our Denver pastors, Purasa Marpaung of the Rocky Mountain Indonesian church, contracted coronavirus. He wasn’t alone. About half of his congregation, perhaps as many as 35 church members, have coronavirus. Through God’s grace, he is out of the hospital, though still in quarantine and recovering.

He shared that it was like a miracle and an experience of answered prayers. His story includes a dream in which he saw a review of his life, his loving family, a black cloud and someone holding him tightly by his feet as if pulling him out of the cloud. ‘My cough and resulting pain were unbearable. At the hospital, they put me on a ventilator and it helped me breathe. But it was Jesus who pulled me through. I was out of this black cloud,’ he shared with us. Pastor Purasa also said that he recognizes ‘fellowship with Jesus Christ in his experience and dedicates his ministry only to Him.”

We praise the Lord for Pastor Purasa’s recovery, and may we recognize that by keeping close to Jesus, amazing things happen. We need to pray for the Indonesian sisters and brothers who are still not out of the woods. Let us praise our Lord Jesus and present Him all who are suffering. Let us pray on behalf of each other, on behalf of our pastors, and all who are doing the Lord’s work.

Let us make the Sabbath hours on April 4 become a turning point in our full reliance on God’s love and grace toward us all.

We shall overcome. With Jesus.”

RMCNews; photo by Aaron Burden on Unsplash

30 Mar

RMC YOUTH: OUR PURPOSE IN A TIME OF CRISIS

Denver, Colorado … At Glacier View Ranch, our facility exists as a place for people to gather and to experience; to explore ideas and relationships, adventure in beautiful places, ignite passions, summit mountains and moments, engage with God and connect with each other.  Our goal is that every person who experiences Glacier View Ranch leaves better equipped to live a greater story.

During the time of COVID-19, our continued commitment is that everyone within our community, near and far, lives healthy, vibrant lives.  In the best interest of the health and wellbeing of our community, we are closed to the public through at least April 17 and have cancelled or postponed all of our groups through the end of April.

Questions still remain as to what the immediate future holds for the services that we offer at Glacier View Ranch. In these times of uncertainty, we commit the following:

  1. We will remain focused on our mission to be a place for people to connect and to experience. While this may look a little different in the short-term, we promise that we will not be going anywhere.  Although the timing is uncertain, we are sure that this crisis will end. As soon as it is legally and safely possible, we will reopen and welcome you back to Glacier View Ranch.  In the meantime:

For spaces to connect in a virtual setting, visit: rmcyouth.org/virtual.

For resources & ideas to help you create experiences at home, visit: rmcyouth.org/resources.

  1. Summer Camp Ministry is our passion and we will not falter in our preparations to run the best Christian camp program in the Rocky Mountain region. At this time, it appears that our summer camp program may be altered in some way for the 2020 season.  Whether it be limited capacity, a shortened season, a virtual camp experience – or some combination of the three –we will maintain our mission of providing a place where kids have the opportunity to experience their best summer ever.
  2. We will keep information flowing. The crisis unfolding across our country is fluid and evolving.  Over the next few weeks we will make decisions regarding our user groups and summer camp program.  We promise that we will keep you up to date here, through email communication, and in our Rocky Mountain Conference NewsNuggets  Our decisions will be based on information from county, state and national authorities and will be grounded in our desire to ensure that we provide spaces and services that put first the health and safety of everyone who visits.

It is true that our world feels out of our control right now.  While this may be a new feeling for many of us in the Springtime of 2020, it is not a new phenomenon for believers in God.  We encourage you to reach out to God, remaining confident in Him.  Ultimately, our faith is not in the things of this world but is in Jesus Christ.

Join us in claiming Paul’s message to the Christians in Rome, “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.” (Romans 15:13 ESV)

Kiefer Dooley, RMC youth director; photo by Rajmund Dabrowski

30 Mar

Ministering to Children in Times of Coronavirus

This week, as I read news articles and had conversations about the challenges families are facing during the COVID-19 crisis, a concern that many shared is how to survive social distancing/self-isolation with young children. These articles and conversations have reminded me of the time when our family served as missionaries in Fiji.

When we first moved to Fiji, our daughters were just three and five years old, respectively, and I had undertaken to homeschool them. Aside from the social isolation of homeschooling in a foreign country, we also faced the isolation brought on by the rainy season, which sometimes kept us indoors for weeks and even months at a time. Here are some things I learned then that your family might find helpful now.

Start and Finish Your Day with God

Each morning, give thanks for all that is good in your life; read passages of Scripture that help calm your anxiety; and then ask God to give you all that you need — love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:2223) — so that you can be the parent your children need.

Ask God also to help you remember to seize those moments when you fail as an opportunity for your family to learn about His amazing grace. Children don’t need a perfect parent. Instead, they need a parent who models humility by being willing to apologize and who models grace by offering and receiving forgiveness.

Each evening, reflect on your day and identify the moments when you experienced God’s presence; thank Him for those moments and for the things that went well; ask forgiveness for the things that didn’t go so well. Ask Him to give your children all that they need to grow in their experience of being loved unconditionally by their heavenly Father; and then ask Him to help you learn from your failures, to give grace to yourself, and then to move on.

I have often found comfort in these words: “We shall often have to bow down and weep at the feet of Jesus because of our shortcomings and mistakes, but we are not to be discouraged” (Ellen G. White, Manuscript 31, 1890).

Teach Your Children How to Connect with God

In times of fear and anxiety, children need parents to not just model their faith in God but also to help them connect with His providence in meaningful, age-appropriate ways. Here are some ideas on how to do this.

In early childhood (age 2-6)

Take your children on a quiet nature walk, asking them to keep their eyes and ears open and their mouths closed. Later, talk about what they saw and heard, reminding them of God as Creator. They can also look for an object while out walking that reminds them of God’s providence and then draw this object as a way of imprinting this lesson in their minds.

Play quiet sacred music, asking them to be still and listen. Then ask them what they heard, and talk about how the song described God as provider and protector.

Read simple Bible stories that focus on the love of God, connecting God’s love with yours.  Then encourage children to respond to the story by memorizing a short phrase, drawing a picture, creating something with modeling clay, or dictating a thank-you note to God.

In middle childhood (age 6-12)

Continue with the activities of early childhood but add Scripture memorizing. Choose Bible verses that speak to fear and anxiety, and help children think about how the verse applies to their feelings. Encourage them to memorize and write the verse and put it in their pocket, and to pull it out and read it when they feel afraid.

In later childhood and adolescence (13+)

By age 12 or 13, children begin to think about God and spirituality differently. Their task for this stage of development is to find God for themselves, which means they need to put what their parents taught them on a shelf for a little while. What they need from us as parents is that we understand the journey they are on and that we come alongside them in support. They need to see our faith as authentic — that it makes a difference in our lives, even in times of fear and stress, and that it provides meaning — that our faith offers answers to the difficult questions of life.

So what can we do?

Intentionally spend quiet time together. Pre-teens and young teens crave alone time with an adult. Go for a walk together in the early morning or evening, contemplating the dawn or the stars and listening for sounds, and reflect on God as Creator. These quiet times are also an opportunity to share something from your devotional time that morning.

Read small portions of Scripture together, slowly and reflectively, and talk about how they might apply to your children’s lives. Choose narrative passages that provide evidence of God’s providence in difficult times; Psalms that describe God’s sovereignty and goodness; and passages that speak directly to human fears and anxieties, such as Philippians 4:6-7.

Read biblical narrative/fictional stories together. If you’ve never read aloud to your children, or if you stopped when they learned to read for themselves, this time of social distancing may be an opportunity to begin a new family tradition that might continue for years to come. In our family, we read aloud while the girls worked quietly on crafts, drawing, and painting.

Show respect by listening, rather than continually preaching and correcting. Have the humility to believe that you can learn from, rather than just teach, your children. And share some of your own struggles, in age-appropriate ways, so that your children can see how your faith intersects with the challenges of life. These types of conversations can have a lifelong impact on your children, so try to see this time of enforced confinement as an opportunity to practice having these conversations.

Structure Your Day Around Predictable Routines

Children (and adults!) thrive on routines, as they provide a sense of stability and security in times when things feel out of control. While a strict schedule is not necessary, having somewhat regular times for rising, worship, meals, schoolwork, outdoor play, story time, and bedtime provides structure so that children can anticipate what is coming next and what is expected of them.

One routine I found particularly helpful is what we called “rest time.” When our children stopped napping during the day, we helped them learn to have quiet time in their rooms. This allowed us to rest and helped them learn to have some downtime and to play alone.  Initially, they had special toys, puzzles, and activities for their rest times; however, as they got a little older, this was no longer necessary, as this was when they listened to recorded stories and they looked forward to it.

If you look online, you will find many suggestions for keeping children engaged and occupied, some of which you might enjoy and some of which you might loathe. I loved reading to our children, and I enjoyed simple crafts, but I hated science experiments, I didn’t love board games, and I got lost in attempts to be consistent with anything that required charts and stickers. You might be the exact opposite of me, so do what you’re good at and what you enjoy. But whatever routines you decide on, be sure to include some outdoor exercise once or twice a day, which will help your children be more calm; and keep your habits at least somewhat predictable, as this will help your children feel safer and more secure during a difficult time.

Remember, This Too Shall Pass

When we were first asked to serve in Fiji, I was ambivalent about the move. I was anxious about raising our children in a different country, so far from extended family, and I was ambivalent about homeschooling. Now that our children are grown and I am older, I consider those years in Fiji as the summer of my life, and I give thanks to God for the slow pace and the many hours of family time, which ultimately shaped the family we have become.

The original version of this commentary was posted by Adventist Record.

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30 Mar

Did God Send COVID-19 and Should Governments be Able to Close Churches?

Adventist Review continues its Pivot Points series with an episode titled “Saved and Sound.” Four theologians discuss questions about the relationship of COVID-19 and theology. What does the pandemic tell us about God? Did He bring the COVID-19 pandemic upon the world? Is this pestilence only meant for unbelievers? Do governments have a right to tell local churches not to gather?

Our guests are Rahel Wells, associate professor of Hebrew Bible at Andrews University; Frank Hasel, associate director of the Biblical Research Institute at the world headquarters of the Seventh-day Adventist Church; and Leal Caesar, associate editor at Adventist Review Ministries. The conversation is facilitated by Gerald Klingbeil, associate editor at Adventist Review Ministries

Once again, we hope that you will find the conversation clear, informative and hopeful and that you will share it with others.

To view Pivot Points video please click here.

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