09 Apr

UNPRECEDENTED!?

By Micheal Goetz–Just as quickly as the pandemic raced across our nation and the world, came the lament, “we are living in unprecedented times.”  It was that word, unprecedented, that stirred my thoughts.  Unprecedented, signals something that is not been known or experienced before. However, from just a human-point, is a virus spread like this completely new?  No, our historians will remind us over and over stories of crisis and pandemic (Bubonic Plague, Spanish Influenza, etc.). Even in our own community of faith, this is the 5th time the General Conference Session has been postponed.

Then take it from a God-point, He who sits above the circle was not caught off guard when church, school, and work calendars on earth came to a screeching halt.  No surprise, He knew it was coming.  Unprecedented? Solomon would speak up and remind us: What has been will be again, what has been done will be done again; there is nothing new under the sun. (Ecc. 1:9)

But all of that brings us to the greater point. A quick review of quarantine and mandated social distancing can be inspiring: The apostle Paul wrote part of the New Testament while under house arrest. In 1665 Cambridge University closed its doors because of the Bubonic Plague. Isaac Newton developed the beginning of calculus and discovered gravity while in quarantine. While in quarantine John Milton in 1667, during the Great Plague of London, wrote Paradise Lost. Pilgrim’s Progress was written by John Bunyan during his 12 years in prison ending in 1672. And as a prophetic movement we have long drawn courage that the book of Revelation was given to John while separated from all those he knew and loved.

Could this crucible of suffering be God’s workshop to an unprecedented work?  It was His voice recorded in Isaiah that made the declaration, Behold I will do a new thing.  (43:19).

The kingdom of darkness has nothing new, however the Kingdom of Heaven continues to dream unprecedented accomplishments for you and for your church.

Micheal Goetz, DMin. is Lead Pastor at Campion Seventh-day Adventist Church

09 Apr

“I LOVE MY PAJAMAS” – HOSPICE CHAPLAINCY IN THE AGE OF COVID-19

By Tony Hunter–Boulder, Colorado … My pajamas are amazing. They bring me soft, gentle comfort day after day after day. We are now intimate acquaintances. And, as much joy as they bring me, I like to think I bring them the same kind of joy, as I currently live to fulfill their purpose.

Hi. My name is Tony Hunter, and I’m a hospice chaplain who has just begun his fifth straight week of chaplaincy from my couch as a result of the Covid-19 Stay-at-Home order. Since then, I have not been able to “see” a single patient, family, or team member in person. Instead, I sit on my comfy couch whilst wrapped in my comfy PJs doing chaplaincy things.

Normally, I spend my days driving to different nursing facilities and homes, visiting my patients and/or their families. I carry a caseload of 35-40 patients, 100 percent of whom are dying, 100 percent of whom I have to see every week. Their families are grieving and trying to figure out how to care for their parent, spouse, or child who may have months or days to live. The patient may know they are dying, but most don’t even realize they are sick, as most have some level of cognitive decline. Many can’t communicate at all.

Some do not recognize their family. This makes the grieving process hard for families because, not only are they losing their loved one physically, they’ve already lost their loved one emotionally and psychologically. They sometimes spend months in a steady state of anticipatory grief, and it is my job to sit with the family as they walk through that.  Often, the best we can do is help them to not suffer and grieve alone.

The same is true for patients. It may be about listening to them as they ask questions like “I’m 97. Why won’t God let me die?” But most often, I’m another face who came to visit them, and in their minds in that moment, I’m the only person who came to visit them, because they can’t remember that their family comes every day. They believe they’ve been abandoned and that no one loves them enough to visit them. They don’t remember me seconds after meeting, and instead think I’m a nephew or grandson, or husband. One time, I was their daughter–that was a weird day–and it’s my job to smile and go with it and help them feel loved and not alone. My greatest tools aren’t my words, but instead my hands that hold theirs, my arms that give hugs, and my warm body that sits in the room with them when they are no longer able to form words.

And then Covid-19 came and took away most of my tools. Zoom and other telehealth platforms can be used, but most of my patients don’t remember how phones work, and they wonder who that weird voice is talking to them through the plastic thing in their hand. Sometimes a facility member will try to hold a phone for them, or open up a video conferencing app, but most can’t engage it and most of those become agitated because they don’t understand it.

Chaplains in the hospital setting are also adapting. They can no longer go in patient rooms and have use mobile Telehealth carts to video chat with a patient from outside their room. It works, but it requires adaptation of practice as the normal way of presence and relaxed intentionality no longer work the same. And that is if the hospital is set up for such things, in which case chaplains can’t visit at all beyond phone calls to rooms. In education, schools are shut down which means chaplains are utilizing video conferencing or even just texting with students in need. In that setting the need is often increased as some students are stuck away from their families with only social media to make connections.

Just like in hospice, families can’t see their loved ones. But therein lies something important. Before, I was sitting with people in their experience, but now I am talking with people as I share their experience. And that subtle difference is infinitely important. I sit in my house in my pajamas, just like the families. I give them a phone call, because I can’t leave my house to see people, just like them. And we talk about what it’s like to be isolated from the people we care about and love. The difference is, when this is done, I’ll get to see my people again. But for many families, the next time they will be allowed to see their loved one is when that person dies. This has opened up a new and more efficient avenue for helping families process their loss.

Before, I would have to work hard to get some families to engage the reality of fatigue and loss. But now, it’s hitting them immediately. When I call them, they start talking about being isolated and stuck at home, then quickly they speak of how hard it is to know their loved one is alone. But then the truth comes out. Because the loved one with the cognitive decline hasn’t actually noticed a difference during quarantine. But the family has. Now, the family begins to recognize what that loved one must feel like all the time, and now the family fears they will never see their loved one again this side of death, and now they have no ability to hide from the reality.

As a result, my work is strangely more intimate. We get to start from a shared perspective. I get to be present with them in a new way. There is less physical presence, but now there is shared emotional presence and together we share our experience. And we share tears. And the reality they have denied for so long becomes very real and we confront it together. We step right into it and walk through it. And whether we pray together for strength on the journey, or whether I listen as they rage against an unfair God, we keep moving forward in spite of fear and loss and regret.

We move forward together, sharing in each other’s wisdom, companionable in the shared reality, all while seated on our comfy couches wrapped in our soft pajamas. Because in our pajamas, shut away in our homes far distant from each other, I may be more accessible than ever.

I’m going to be glad when Covid-19 loses its hold on society. But I may never not wear my pajamas again.

Tony Hunter is a Seventh-day Adventist pastor and a Hospice Chaplain working for Elevation Hospice in Northern Colorado; Photo by Shutterstock

09 Apr

800 MILES OF PRAYER

By DeeAnn Bragaw–Denver, Colorado … From Gillette in Wyoming to La Vida Mission in New Mexico. That’s about as broad as we can get in Rocky Mountain Conference! And together, yet apart, last Sabbath we ‘met’ to pray. We praised, we surrendered, we interceded, and we praised again. We read scripture, we sang, and we prayed. We prayed for our families, our churches, our pastors, our front-line workers, our conference. We prayed over the sick, the vulnerable, the grieving.  We prayed for our schools, our camps, our hospitals. We prayed to minister to our communities in new ways.

We prayed, RMC. And that’s just the start! We’re praying more! We have more prayer calls and prayer zoom conferences. One group let me know that they have been praying especially for those who are not currently attending church. Then they decided that they should call those people. And … one of those phone calls resulted in a missing member expressing a desire to come back to the church.

We are praying, RMC. Together in prayer we boost each other’s courage and faith as we speak faith through the Word of God and intercede together. And our praying gives God extra space to work in the lives of those He’s already crazy about! Why not read through that list above and pray some more?

Reach out and let us know how God’s working and how we can pray for you and others – send your requests to [email protected] or text them to 303-243-1172.

RMC – Let’s pray!

DeeAnn Bragaw, RMC prayer ministry director

09 Apr

Campion student recommends 20 things to do when you’re bored during quarantine

By Megan Michalenko–Loveland, Colorado … Amidst the uncertainty we are living in at the moment, it’s important to still have fun and enjoy the time we have off from our regular schedules. Whether it be taking up an old or new hobby or trying something new, having things to take your mind off of what’s happening in the world is healthy. When you feel sad or anxious, it’s good to get out of bed and do something!

To try and prevent being bored while being stuck at home, here are some of the things I’ve been doing:

  1. Bake something. Ask your family what dessert is their favorite and make it for them! Or make your own favorite treat from scratch!
  2. Cook dinner for your family. Make a dinner that you love for your whole family!
  3. Walk your dog. This is not only good for your dog, but it also benefits you! Listen to some music and enjoy being outside!
  4. Sit outside in the sun. We can all benefit from some vitamin d! Vitamin d is good for your mental health and immune system! You will feel good after sitting in the sun!
  5. Read a good book. We all have a book we’ve been wanting to read, well now’s the perfect time!
  6. Color. I think this is my personal favorite that I’ve picked up. Coloring is great to reduce anxiety! Here is a link for some really cute coloring sheets: https://mailchi.mp/54b513f6980a/new-coloring-pages-6383356?e=edf2e107d3
  7. Tie dye your clothes. Browse through your closet for anything white and in need of some color! Look online for tie dye kits that can be delivered!
  8. Create sidewalk chalk art. I’ve seen so many inspirational messages done with chalk when walking around my neighborhood!
  9. Go through stuff from when you were little. Reminiscing from when you were younger is always fun! Go through old pictures or keepsakes to remind yourself of good memories!
  10. Clean out your room and closet. Although we may not want to do this, cleaning is the perfect thing to keep your mind occupied.
  11. Exercise. You can follow a video or do your own thing!
  12. Have a spa day. Take the time to pamper yourself! Self care is important.
  13. Practice sports. Work on a skill you’ve always wanted to improve. You’ll be ready for tryouts next year!
  14. Practice instruments. This is a great time to learn a new song or technique on any instrument!
  15. Go on a bike ride. Great for clearing your head and exercise!
  16. Listen to an inspirational podcast. If you’re feeling unmotivated this is a way to be inspired!
  17. Write letters to your family and friends. Receiving a letter from a loved one is always special and will make someone’s day!
  18. Facetime a friend. Talking to friends is a good way to lift your spirits! It’s always good to catch up with a friend who you haven’t talked to in awhile.
  19. Get ahead on homework. With online school, try and get all your homework done once it’s assigned so that you can relax at night!
  20. Have a family movie night. Watching movies as a family is a great way to spend time together!

Megan Michalenko is student editor of Campion Academy’s This Week at Campion; photo supplied

08 Apr

COMMENTARY – WHERE IS THE HOPE?

By Ardis Stenbakken–Here in Loveland, a young man, Max Moree, working on his Eagle Scout project, refurbished a huge star that had deteriorated on a hillside and was no longer lit. It is generally lighted only at Christmas, but has been lighted before during crises–the Iran hostage crisis and September 11, 2001. Now it is lighted again as a beacon of hope for the Loveland residents during the pandemic. To give hope. But is that really where hope comes from?

Hope. We have hope: hope that this COVID-19 will soon be over. Hope that we can meet again in worship. Hope that the kids will be able to go back to school, hope that there will once again be childcare, and hope that our school seniors will be able to have a graduation ceremony.

But that is not really the hope I am talking about. I am talking about having hope even if these things don’t happen for a very long time, or even at all.

“Be strong and take heart, all you who hope in the Lord” (Psalms 31:24). That is where the real hope lies. Hope for those struggling with kids stuck in the house, for those who worry about family members in the health profession, for those who are sick. Hope as you feed your family and pay the mortgage. “Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God (Psalm 42:11).

Ardis Stenbakken writes from Loveland, Colorado, where she is a member of Campion Seventh-day Adventist Church. She is a former Women’s Ministry director of the General Conference; photo by Rajmund Dabrowski

08 Apr

Food and Your Immune System

It’s difficult to overstate how important nutrition is in promoting a healthy immune system. You need a diverse group of phytochemicals (the bioactive chemical compounds in plants) to create a strong barrier against pathogens that would otherwise make you ill.

Because immunity typically declines as you age, it becomes especially important to eat more immune-supporting foods as you get older. Plus, there is considerable evidence that the immune systems of people who eat healthful diets abundant with fruits and vegetables do not decline nearly as rapidly with age.

Many studies have shown that nutrient deficiencies cause impaired immune function in the elderly. Even in people as young as 35 years old, poor nutrition wreaks havoc on the immune response.

But there’s good news, too! When elderly people eat at least five servings per day of fruits and vegetables, they have improved antibody response to stress.

Making healthy food choices is like recruiting a microscopic army of nutrients which are all trained to help your body fight off germs.

So, what foods should you be eating to get the nutrients you need and stay healthy?

G-BOMBS to the Rescue

Some of the healthiest foods for you and your immune health are what’s called G-BOMBS, a fun acronym developed by Food Revolution Summit speaker, Joel Fuhrman, MD. It stands for Greens, Beans, Onions, Mushrooms, Berries, and Seeds. G-BOMBS are full of critical nutrients to help your body fight off illness.

Greens

Greens, such as spinach, kale, mustard greens, collard greens, broccoli, bok choy, and Brussels sprouts, are packed with the phytonutrients your immune system needs for optimal function. Green vegetables are rich in folate, calcium, and antioxidants like lutein and zeaxanthin. Folate is especially important for producing antibodies that work to destroy antigens that can make you sick. You can blend green veggies into smoothies, saute them, use them as a base for colorful salads, chop and mix them into pasta dishes, or roast them.

Beans

Beans, peas, and lentils are full of fiber and resistant starch (carbohydrates not broken down through digestion). The compounds in beans and other legumes can help enhance your gut microbiome, which is important because much of your immunity begins with the health of your digestive system. You can add beans, peas, and lentils to just about any dish, like spaghetti, on top of salads or pizzas, or in stews and soups.

Onions

Onions, which are part of the Allium family of vegetables along with shallots, scallions, leeks, garlic, and chives, are full of organosulfur compounds. These compounds have known benefits for immunity and are released when alliums are crushed or chopped. Onions contain quercetin, a compound that may have particularly powerful bacteria-fighting abilities, as well as prebiotic fiber that feeds only the beneficial bacteria in our large intestine. Onions and garlic make great kitchen staples because you can use them in so many ways. You might enjoy sauteeing them and adding them to soups, stir-fries, burritos, and homemade sauces.

Mushrooms

Mushrooms, including the commonly consumed varieties, like white, crimini, and Portobello, have been studied for their immune-modulating and enhancing abilities. There’s so much evidence that mushrooms are good for your immune system that they’ve even been studied as a potential treatment for cancer. Additionally, mushrooms may increase an important immune-balancing compound called secretory IgA.

Note that you should only eat cooked mushrooms to reduce a potentially carcinogenic compound called agaritine. Cooked mushrooms are great on warm sandwiches, in noodle dishes, on salads, in soups, and on pizza. They can even serve as a base for plant-based burgers!

Berries

Berries of all kinds, including strawberries, raspberries, blackberries, and blueberries, are high in phytochemicals and vitamins that may help keep the immune system functioning at its best. The main antioxidant compound in blueberries is called pterostilbene, which has been studied for its ability to lower inflammation and fight disease. Berries are delicious eaten raw, but you can also blend them into smoothies, mix them into oatmeal or yogurt, make them into a homemade chia jam, or toss them into salads. 

Seeds

Seeds and nuts, like chia, flax, walnuts, and almonds, are rich in disease-preventing nutrients like fiber, healthy omega-3 fats, and micronutrients like vitamin E, iron, zinc, and calcium. Zinc — especially high in pumpkin seeds, sesame seeds, and hemp seeds — is a particularly potent nutrient that supports immunity, so much so that it’s called “a gatekeeper of immune function.” Nuts and seeds are a perfect afternoon snack and go well in homemade trail mix. You can blend them to make your own nut and seed butters and “cheezes,” or toss them into salads, stir-fries, and smoothies. 

Other Immune-Supporting Foods

Stay healthy with a few other antioxidant-rich foods that strengthen immunity, including:

Beets: Beets are high in nitrates, which become nitric oxide in the body and open up your blood vessels, improving circulation and lowering heart rate. They also contain betalains, which can reduce inflammation, as well as fiber, an important nutrient to prevent a number of diseases.

Dragon Fruit: Dragon fruit is a good source of fiber and prebiotics, which are beneficial to gut health. They also contain antioxidants, like vitamin C, which enhance immunity. And they include heart-healthy compounds called flavonoids, like betalains.

Purple Veggies: Purple vegetables like purple cauliflower, purple carrots, red onion, eggplant, and purple cabbage, are loaded with antioxidants called anthocyanins, which give them their coloring and heal your cells from damage. Anthocyanins may help prevent cancer, promote heart health, and boost your memory.

Zucchini: Zucchini contains compounds that can improve digestion, slow the effects of aging, lower blood sugar, promote heart health, and protect your body against oxidative damage that can lead to disease.

This material was provided by Rocky Mountain Lifestyle Center, part of the Rocky Mountain Conference, and is reprinted by permission from “Smart Immunity: How Diet and Lifestyle Can Help you stay Healthy in the Time of COVID-19 by Ocean Robbins of Food Revolution Network Published April 1, 2020. Photo by iStock.com/courtneyk

07 Apr

FOR YOUTH – CONNECTION THROUGH THE SCREEN

By Jessyka Dooley–Denver, Colorado … As COVID-19 sweeps the country, we’ve all experienced normal life descend into a world of online and virtual connection. From work to school to social hour, people are connecting through screens rather than in person. Find here what is available to our RMC young people:

HIGH SCHOOL VESPERS – At Campion and Mile High academies, school leaders and administration are now hosting live, Friday evening vespers for their students. Taking place at 6 p.m. MST, the academy vespers programs allow students to connect with their own schools in a positive and engaging way despite being spread out across Colorado and the country. Students tuning in to their school’s vespers receive worship, a message, and important announcements that help keep everyone united during this time apart.

Immediately following the MHA and Campion programs, the MVMNT hosts an engaging and dynamic service built upon the idea that social interaction and connection do not need to stop in a time of social distancing. Last week, participants tuned in at 7:30 p.m. MST to enjoy good conversation and a game (two rooms and a Zoom) before a short worship thought. You may be thinking, how can we play a game over Zoom? Guess you’ll need to join this coming Friday to find out! Email Pastor J. Murdock ([email protected]) for the Zoom link and password.

RMC YOUTH HOSTS WEEKLY “YOUTH LEADERS” ZOOM MEETING – In the age of COVID-19 and virtual ministry, churches and schools alike have dropped their perceived boundary lines to minister as one.

For the past three weeks, youth pastors and leaders from around the conference have connected via Zoom to discuss what virtual ministry looks like specifically for kids, teens, and young adults in the Rocky Mountain Conference. Familiar and new faces alike have joined these meetings to gain insight, ideas, and resources to benefit growth in their local contexts.

Collaborations that began long ago are now bursting with opportunity as leaders across the conference seek this new opportunity to run Bible studies, Connect Groups, and Sabbath Schools together.

The plan for 2021 has been to run a Greater Summit: Leaders for those involved in youth ministry across the conference. We’ve seen a silver lining to this global pandemic in that it has jump-started the collaboration process. Leaders from across the conference are able to connect, share, and collaborate on ministry ideas and events together. There is no more “my kids” and “your kids” because right now they are all “our kids” and we want the absolute best for them during this crazy time.

If you are a youth leader in your local church, school, or community, and would like to be part of this weekly meeting, contact Jessyka Dooley ([email protected]) for the Zoom link and password.

Jessyka Dooley is RMC associate youth director; photo by Harry Cunningham at Unsplah

07 Apr

Rocky Mountain Lifestyle Center: Resources and Support

By Rick Mautz–Denver, Colorado … The Rocky Mountain Lifestyle Center, a department of the Rocky Mountain Conference, has been very active during this health crisis, working to bring you helpful information.  You can access this information from www.rmlc.online by looking for specific pages devoted to COVID-19 with the labels “COVID-19” and “Daily BOOST”.

While the media has clearly presented instructions on avoiding exposure, a critical part of your protection, our purpose is to help you know how to build up your immune system, an area seldom presented by the media. Even after a vaccine is developed, the primary player in this battle will be your immune system.  If or when you are exposed to this virus, a strong immune system can react quickly to fight off this invader.  With a compromised immune system, the virus multiples more quickly and can gain the upper hand before the body can detect its presence and begin the fight.

We are fortunate to live in a time of advanced medical care and practices, but we must not forget the critical role each of us can play in maintaining health and fighting disease.  I encourage you to maintain a balanced approach to health, which includes an understanding of the power of lifestyle and things you can do for yourself that, in most cases, cost you nothing.

When we discover and implement the things we can do for ourselves, we lessen the fear and stress that weakens our immune system.  Active stress (doing something to improve our condition) is known to improve the immune system, while passive stress (fear of something we have no control over) weakens our immune system.

Take advantage of the lifestyle support on our website and remember these few steps.

  • Stress less with trust in God,
  • Get outside for fresh air, sunlight, activity while exploring God’s creation,
  • Eat a whole plant food diet while not overeating,
  • Drink plenty of water and try a daily hot and cold shower,
  • Reach out and support others by phone or other media,
  • Get plenty of rest.

Make this a time to build your health not only for this health crisis but for a happier and healthier life after it passes.

Rick Mautz is RMC health ministries director. Rocky Mountain Lifestyle Center is part of RMC.

07 Apr

ALONG FOR THE RIDE

By Doug Inglish–Denver, Colorado … There is a saying in auto racing: In the blink of an eye you can go from a driver to a passenger.

That’s kind of a scary concept when you are in a vehicle that only has room for one! In one instant, you are controlling a technologically-advanced machine at over 200 mph, the car responding perfectly to every command. The next, you are strapped into a pile of scrap metal at a somewhat slower but still breathtaking speed, unable to stop, steer or otherwise influence where this hot mess is going to end up as it sprays sparks and combustible fuel over the hot pavement.

We have all felt that way, haven’t we? Hopefully without the physical danger. It happens in relationships, in personal finances, at work, practically in every part of our lives. One minute you are in control and the next, you don’t seem to have any influence over the course of things. It’s too late to be proactive, and being reactive doesn’t seem to change anything.

Usually, however, even when things go amiss, we have more control over the situation than the sudden passenger on the track at Indianapolis. That holds true even when a pandemic turns the world upside down.

You may have had your work severely impacted. You may have no choice over sending the kids to school, where to eat, or whom you can visit. And even if they let you go to certain stores, you might not find what you want, or be forced to take a brand you don’t like. One day you are driving your life, and the next day, you feel like you’re just along for the ride, headed toward the wall with no way to turn the wheels.

But look at all the choices we can still make. I would not choose to work mostly from home, staggering my office time with others in my department to minimize physical proximity. But with emails, cell phones, and Zoom meetings, we are able to go forward with less interruption than a similar office just twenty years ago.

I can have my favorite foods, even if not in my favorite restaurant. The shelves of my fridge and cupboard have plenty for Susan and I, and free delivery is available from a wide variety of places.

I talk to my son in Wisconsin, my daughter in Tennessee, and my father in Indiana, all by video, if I want. I may not see them in person for a while, but contact is so easy that we forget how recently it was that a long-distance call required us to consider if it was worth the relatively high cost.

And I do church at home. It’s far from ideal, but I still have that option and I can choose from an almost unlimited menu of preachers, from my local pastor to the well-known evangelists to the greatest hits of Adventist sermons from the past.

Even though schools may be closed, teachers are creatively working to keep our students on task and on track to finish their lessons by the end of the year.

So even in the midst of limited options, we still have a degree of control that is provided by technology, creativity, and our own will to carry on.

Let me point out one more choice you can make. It’s a very important one. Even if you feel more like a passenger than a driver at this time, you still have this option.

You can choose to keep supporting the mission.

That’s more important than what brand of sanitizing wipes you get, or where you get your take-out, or whether you choose this week’s sermon or a golden oldie from a favorite camp meeting. That choice has not been taken from you.

We are all experiencing, to one degree or another, a loss of control over many of the circumstances of our lives. Many are feeling the pinch brought on by this crisis, and many more will before it is over; that much is out of our control. There is no question that as the financial crunch comes to more families, it will impact The Rocky Mountain Conference. Believe me, we talk about that, just as your employer and your family and the school your kids attend talk about it.

But we members are not helpless. We are not totally out of control. We have the ability to make decisions of significant importance to our own lives and to the mission that Jesus gave to us. We can all choose that as long as we have an income, we will return to the Lord His portion. Faithfulness is always an option.

Doug Inglish, RMC Planned Giving and Trust Services director; photo by Rajmund Dabrowski

07 Apr

Connecting With Seniors – Quarantine is not the last word.

By Stephen Chavez for Adventist Review

By now they’re familiar: video images of people—neighbors, families, coworkers—showing up outside someone’s window to offer well-wishes, and, in one case, to celebrate the 100th birthday of a woman who was isolated because of the COVID-19 virus. These are extraordinary times for all of us, but for seniors it’s especially challenging.

My 92-year-old dad lives in a retirement community on the opposite side of the country from where I live. When I contacted him a few weeks ago for our weekly visit via Facetime, his first words were: “I’ve been quarantined!”

Compared to many, my dad is in a good place. True, he’s supposed to stay in his one-bedroom apartment. And when he walks the hall (to get his mail, for example), he’s supposed to stay at least six feet away from anyone he might meet. But his meals are delivered to his room in disposable containers and left on a stool just outside his door three times day; someone comes to clean his apartment once a week; and he’s been assured that the facility’s employees are monitored to make sure that none of them carry the coronavirus.

But the facility has temporarily banned outside visitors, and forbidden its residents from going outside, where they might be exposed to the virus.

For a guy who’s used to visiting with friends in the dining room, participating in weekly Bible studies and vesper services, going on outings to shop, and taking the shuttle to church once a week, he finds this rather confining.

We can only imagine the hardships encountered by other families. I know a woman who now finds herself unable to visit her husband of more than 60 years. The woman’s husband, in the final stages of Parkinson’s disease, is descending into advanced dementia. She worries that he will not understand her failure to make her usual daily visits. The very idea that he should pass away alone, without her having a chance to say goodbye, causes her sleepless nights.

Some facilities allow families to visit those in hospice care. But many patients linger, well enough to be cheered by family members or friends who are now prohibited from visiting.

We understand that these are unprecedented times and conditions. When we reflect that some of the largest concentrated outbreaks of the disease have been in facilities that house seniors, we have to appreciate the somewhat severe measures being taken.

But what can we do? Is there no recourse other than to just stand by and watch it happen?

We can act.

First, we can support those whose concern about a loved one they can’t visit is palpable. With phone calls, e-mails, and cards, we can communicate our solidarity with them in their struggle. But instead of offering trite clichés, let’s provide willing ears to listen to their fears without judgment. More than advice, such individuals need empathy and someone to lean on.

Second, if those in isolation are cogent and functional, we can send cards and make phone calls. Situations vary from person to person, but opportunities to extend the love of Christ in some form or fashion are available for those willing to think outside the box.

Third, we can orchestrate some public demonstration—a mini-concert, pep rally, or exhibition—in front of a window where those who are confined can enjoy the spectacle. Always obey the instructions of local health officials regarding groups and distances, but COVID-19 is no match for community spirit.

In a few weeks or months we’ll be on the other side of this crisis. Let’s make sure that, as far as possible, we all make it through together.

Stephen Chavez is assistant editor of the Adventist Review

“This article was originally published on AdventistReview.org

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