27 Apr

EQUIPPING LAY PASTORS FOR COMMUNITY INVOLVEMENT

By Jon Roberts – Denver, Colorado … “It’s my intention to just throw a lot [of information] at everybody, to feed them with a fire hose,” Nathan Skaife, pastor of the Grand Junction church, commented on the Lay Pastor Training in Denver, April 23 – 25 at the Rocky Mountain Conference office.

The gathering, which was the first in-person class of the year for the Denver area, included 17 individuals, many representing the ethnically diverse churches in RMC. The topics covered included covenant theology and best practices for church growth.

For Skaife, the tri-annual meetings are developed out of a love for the Scriptures and a desire to equip individuals to better serve the church and the community.

Responding to what strengths he brings to the gathering, Skaife said, “I would say passion would be one of them. [Also] the love of the Scriptures and [the desire] to help people dig deeper and have the tools to do so and equip them to do what God is calling them to do.”

Elijah Lujan, member of Colorado Springs South church, explained his attendance by saying he enjoys being able to understand the Gospel better. “I’m definitely attending so I can learn more about the Gospel and more about Jesus. When I share with others about Jesus, I’m sharing new stuff that they can understand because [the training] really makes it easier to understand than just saying big words that others may not understand.”

Skaife hopes the training will be challenging to those in attendance. “I wanted it to not only be challenging to someone. I want to push them even further [but] help them to be able to grow in their walk with the Lord,” he said.

For Emmanuel Jean, member of the Agape Haitian church, the training has given him renewed confidence.  “[It] has made me read my Bible every day and it makes me feel comfortable talking and sharing with people.”

“Having individuals play a more significant role in the church and the community is the ultimate goal of the training,” commented Skaife

“The people are going to play an even more significant role in their local churches. Many of them are preaching more often than they ever did before.  People are engaged in doing Bible studies and are engaged in soul-winning,” Skaife added.

The techniques learned are helping individuals give better sermons and Bible studies according to Augustine Sheriff, Colorado Indonesian-American Adventist Church member.  “One of the things I’ve really enjoyed is the help I gain in structuring sermons, giving Bible studies and structuring my lessons as I go.”

Many are thankful that RMC is providing the training to fill the gap of needs in our churches. “I am thankful that the conference has created a program that both trains and assists leaders and helps pastors and congregations in need, that fills the gap that arises in many of our churches,” Bill Oxenford, True Life Community church ember said.”

The next trainings will be held in Grand Junction on May 21 and in Denver on June 11.  If you are interested in joining or learning more about the program, please email Nathan Skaife at [email protected].

–Jon Roberts is RMC communication / media assistant; photos by Jon Roberts

 

22 Apr

CELEBRACIÓN DE LA CULTURA ESPAÑOLA EN CAMPION

Por Jill Harlow – Loveland, Colorado … Las clases de español de Campion Academy presentaron una celebración de la cultura española en la noche del 16 de abril, que incluyó actuaciones musicales en vivo, videos de cocina auténticos, muestras de alimentos y obras de arte recreadas del mundo de habla hispana.

El público tuvo una experiencia que deleitó los sentidos: “Me gustó mucho que hubiera una variedad de alimentos, bailes y artes diferentes de la cultura española”, dijo Sofie, una joven”. Fue muy divertido y lo disfruté mucho”.

Los estudiantes apreciaron la ruptura de centrarse principalmente en el lenguaje a incorporar la cultura.

Olivia Jordan, estudiante de Campion creó un video de cocina sobre cómo hacer empanadas. “Disfruté aprendiendo sobre los diferentes tipos de alimentos de los países de habla hispana. Fue divertido tratar de recrear las empanadas. Regan, [estudiante de Campion] y yo”, explicó Jordan, “nos lo pasamos muy bien en la cocina tratando de seguir la receta y el video de nosotros mismos al mismo tiempo. Al final, creo que nuestras empanadas resultaron geniales. ¡Estaban deliciosos!”

Poe Hla Hla, estudiante de Campion interpretó la canción “Recuerdame”, comentando: “Estoy orgulloso de mí mismo por sacarme de mi zona de confort y cantar una canción que es muy querida a mi corazón”.

Ángel Villalobos, trabajador estudiantil del departamento español, asistió a Hla Hla en la actuación. “Doy gracias a Ángel”, expresó Hla Hla, “porque no podría haber hecho esto sin él. Realmente me ayudó”, dijo.

El público se puso de pie cuando Sandra Arlt dio una lección sobre los pasos básicos del conocido baile latino, la salsa.

“Una de las cosas que disfruté mucho es cuántos vibraron con mi presentación. Al principio tenía miedo, y luego todo cayó perfectamente en su lugar”, reflexionó Arlt.  “Pensé que todas las presentaciones iban muy bien. Estaba muy orgulloso de lo que todos logramos. En general, fue muy divertido!”

Al final de las actuaciones, el público tuvo la oportunidad de gustar comida de cada uno de los espectáculos de cocina y visitar la exposición de arte.

“Fue un día memorable para nuestras clases de español; las canciones eran hermosas, los videos eran divertidos, los bailes eran interactivos, la obra de arte era excepcional, y la comida era deliciosa. Estoy muy orgulloso de los estudiantes y del trabajo que ponen para que este programa sea un éxito. Espero hacer de este un evento anual en Campion”, dijo Jill Harlow, profesora de español de Campion.

–Jill Harlow es la directora de comunicación de Campion Academy; fotos suministradas

22 Apr

SPANISH CULTURE CELEBRATION AT CAMPION

By Jill Harlow – Loveland, Colorado … Campion Academy’s Spanish classes presented a celebration of culture on the evening of April 16, that included live musical performances, authentic cooking videos, food samples, and recreated artwork from the Spanish-speaking world.

The audience had an experience which delighted the senses: “I really liked that there was a variety of different foods, dances, and arts from the Spanish culture,” said Sofie, a junior. “It was very fun and I enjoyed it a lot.”

The students appreciated the break from mostly focusing on language to incorporating culture.

Olivia Jordan, Campion student created a cooking video on how to make empanadas. “I enjoyed learning about the different types of foods from Spanish-speaking countries. It was fun to try to recreate the empanadas. Regan, [Campion student] and I,” Jordan explained, “had a really good time in the kitchen trying to follow the recipe and video ourselves at the same time. In the end, I think our empanadas turned out great. They were delicious!”

Poe Hla Hla, Campion student performed the song “Recuerdame,” commenting, “I am proud of myself for pushing myself out of my comfort zone and singing a song that is very dear to my heart.”

Angel Villalobos, the Spanish department’s student worker, assisted Hla Hla in the performance. “I give thanks to Angel,” Hla Hla expressed, “because I couldn’t have done this without him. He really helped me out,” she said.

The audience rose to their feet when Sandra Arlt gave a lesson on the basic steps of the well-known Latino dance, the salsa.

“One of the things I majorly enjoyed is how many vibed with my presentation. I was scared at first, and then everything just fell perfectly into place,” Arlt reflected. “I thought all of the presentations went very well. I was very proud of what we all pulled off. Overall, it was just really fun!”

At the end of the performances, the audience had the opportunity to sample food from each of the cooking shows and visit the art exhibition.

“It was a memorable day for our Spanish classes; the songs were beautiful, the videos were funny, the dances were interactive, the artwork was exceptional, and the food was delicious. I’m very proud of the students and the work they put in to make this program a success. I hope to make this an annual event at Campion,” Jill Harlow, Campion Spanish teacher said.

–Jill Harlow is Campion Academy’s communication director; photos supplied

22 Apr

FORT MORGAN LIGHTHOUSE SCHOOL BIRTHDAY BOXES BRING JOY TO THE COMMUNITY

By Pennie Wredberg – Fort Morgan, Colorado …“It is like creating your dream birthday celebration,” said Lighthouse Seventh-day Adventist  Christian School student Paloma. “My favorite part was choosing what to put in our box.”

Recently, students at Lighthouse created birthday boxes for children in the community who might not otherwise get to have a celebration.

The idea started in February when students were talking about homelessness and other difficult situations that kids face today. “What would it be like to not get a birthday party,” the students wondered. “That would be very sad,” they concluded. So, they decided to plan a party in a box.

The project was explained during church and a note went home to parents describing what the students wanted to do. Donations for the boxes came pouring in from parents, church members, and even the students themselves.

Student partners decided what the theme of their box would be and together decorated the outside of a cake box. Soon the chapel was filled with boxes covered with pictures of horses, flowers, magnifying glasses, footprints, and waterfalls. Working with their co-designers, they walked up and down the tables set out in the chapel on Friday, deciding what type of frosting they wanted to match the cake they had chosen for their box. Then they added the candles, balloons, toys, and everything else needed to throw a small party.

“I hope that this makes someone happy,” a student was heard saying. “It would be so sad to not have a party for my birthday.”

“Can we do this again?” another student asked. “This is one of my favorite community service projects ever!”

All together there were eleven boxes, decorated and filled, donated to Fort Morgan County Family Center.

Mary Gross, Executive Director of Fort Morgan County Family Center, accepted all of the boxes and said that her staff would make sure the boxes would go to the families that needed them most.

Before the boxes left the church the students prayed that they would go to kids who needed to know that someone cared about them.

–Pennie Wredberg is the head teacher at Lighthouse Seventh-day Adventist Christian School; photos supplied

Addy and her buddy, Damian, even went shopping together for their ocean themed box, and
they had a very specific list of items they wanted to include, right down to a blue frosting to
make the cake look like the sea.

 

Mary Gross, Executive Director of Morgan County Family Center, and Pennie Wredberg,
Principal of Lighthouse, holding two “birthday boxes”.

 

Students worked with partners to choose, decorate, and fill their “birthday boxes.”

 

Brayden and Isaac’s birthday box was spy themed and included magnifying glasses, notepads
for recording clues, and squirt guns.
Riley and Emmery created an outdoor themed birthday box full of games that could be played
outside during a party.

 

Camila and Paloma’s floral themed box included seeds for planting flowers and a tiara so a
lucky someone would feel like a princess.
21 Apr

FRONT RANGE SCHOOLS UNITE FOR WORSHIP AND FELLOWSHIP

RMCNews with MHA and BAA communication – Highlands Ranch, Colorado … “It was fun to play [basketball] because we got to make new friends,” remarked Irene, Brighton Adventist Academy (BAA) sixth-grader on two Adventist schools uniting to worship and enjoy a friendly game of basketball between middle schoolers on April 17.

The evening began with a devotional thought by Walter Weber, MHA middle school teacher who encouraged the gathered students to remember social media doesn’t love them and to remember to listen to the people who do love you.

“Middle schoolers have a lot of voices telling them what to do. It can be confusing for them. I wanted to remind them to listen to the really important voices–the ones that love them–God and their parents being the most important among them,” Weber commented.

The activities, organized by both school administrations and athletic departments as well as MHA’s middle school coach Kurt Fesler, included a friendly co-ed basketball competition followed by a close game between Brighton’s middle school boys’ team versus MHA’s middle school A-team.

The students enjoyed the “normal” evening. “We’ve only been able to play one other game this season due to COVID,” said Logen, MHA middle school student. “It was fun hosting another school and playing basketball again in our gym.”

Remarking on the friendly competition, Gizelle, BAA seventh-grader said, “I enjoyed playing with Mile High Academy because I love basketball. It was fun because it was an official game and not just playing basketball with my classmates at school.”

Jodie Aakko, BAA Principal, was thankful for the event. “Thank you, Mile High Academy, for inviting us to play basketball. [It was] a great evening to celebrate our students’ abilities, youthfulness, and great sportsmanship. Great job students—you used your teamwork, just like coach Morrison taught you!”

Students will remember the time together and the chance to get acquainted with new friends. “It’s always fun playing basketball, but this evening was great because it was more [than] just a game. It was a time to get to meet new friends and life felt a little more normal,” said Logen.

— RMCNews with MHA and BAA communication; photos by Jodie Aakko

21 Apr

MONTROSE DISTRICT PASTOR NATHAN CRANSON ORDAINED TO THE GOSPEL MINISTRY

By Jon Roberts – Montrose, Colorado … In front of 200 church family members, friends, and fellow pastors, Nathan Cranson, pastor of the Montrose district, was ordained to the gospel ministry, an acknowledgement of Christ’s calling on his life.

Cranson recalls God leading his life at an early age.

“In a time of need, God reminded a three-year boy to trust in Him. At thirteen, He gladly entered into this boy’s heart. Shortly afterward, with a love and joy that could not be expressed, He planted in this boy’s heart the deep desire to share His goodness with the world,” Cranson reflected. “This boy is me and this ordination service is NOT a testimony to my faithfulness to God but rather His faithfulness to me.”

Cranson grew up in Paonia, Colorado with seven siblings and is the middle child of parents Addie and Greg Cranson. He was the first Adventist in his family, introduced to the church by his childhood friends and neighbors. After building friendships in school, Cranson recalls being invited to the “Arise” convention with David Asscherick where he was baptized. He married the love of his wife, Michelle, 2 ½ years ago and they have one four-legged child, he affirms.

David Asscherick, pastor of Castle Rock church remarked on this special occasion. “‘By their fruits, you shall know them.’ Nathan bears the fruit of having been called to the gospel ministry. Anyone with eyes to see can discern this. It was an enormous honor for me to baptize him as a teenager and then to be a part of his ordination 17 years later.”

Dean Coridan, president of the Iowa-Missouri conference, who helped Cranson begin his ministry work, introduced him at the service. Coridan was glad to be part of the service. “We are thrilled to be a part of the ordination of Nathan and Michelle. He started ministry in the IA-MO Conference and he definitely demonstrated that he had a call to ministry. The churches loved him and he exhibited skill in leading people to Christ. We were so happy to be able to participate in his ordination.”

“To have two conferences involved in Pastor Nathan Cranson’s ministerial growth and eventually his ordination is a testimony to the beauty of being a part of a world church where churches and conferences work together to provide opportunities for men and women to shine for Jesus,” Mickey Mallory, RMC ministerial director, commented on the event.

Cranson recognizes and appreciates the many who helped make the day one he will not forget. “What a blessed moment. Surrounded by family, friends, loving church members and spiritual mentors, to recognize the faithfulness of God in my life. He has seen me through so many trials and triumphs and deserves every bit of the glory. Oh, what joy to remember that He who has begun a good work, is faithful to complete it! What an honor and a privilege is to serve the living God.”

He added, “A special thank you to everyone who shared this moment with me. Your prayers, presence, and participation were what made it so special.”

–Jon Roberts is RMC communication/media assistant; photos by Nathan Cranson, Mickey Mallory, and Susan Inglish

20 Apr

OPINION: What shall we eat?

By Karla Klemm … “Eat food, not too much, mostly plants,” said Michael Pollan well-known nutritionist and author of numerous best-selling books.

I appreciate the refreshing simplicity of this statement as a registered dietitian and find it to be quite true. I also know that what we eat can be as sensitive a topic as are politics and religion among gatherings of people, especially in the Adventist church.

Interestingly, research is discovering that a plant-based approach to eating is important for health. Ellen White was ahead of her time in this regard.  The benefits of being a vegetarian are famously documented in the Adventist Health Study and the Blue Zones book by author Dan Buettner.  Yet, the judgmental nature of feeling superior about one’s nutritional practices is not helpful and can be quite divisive.

There is a term coined in 2008 by dietitian Dawn Jackson Blatner called flexitarianism that is gaining steam in 2021.  This approach to eating advocates the following principles:

  • Eat mostly fruits and vegetables, legumes and whole grains
  • Focus on protein from plants instead of animals
  • Eat the least-processed, most natural form of foods
  • Limit added sugar and sweets
  • If choosing to eat meat, fish, eggs or dairy products, make it occasional and purchased from local sources

Research shows consumers care about buying local foods, decreasing their footprint on the climate through food, and eating foods that have ingredients we can pronounce (or that don’t have an ingredient list which means they are probably from the produce section of the grocery store).  There has also been a “diet culture” change.  People want to change their eating habits rather than go on a diet which is a “quick fix” and is not sustainable for a lifetime.

I would encourage individuals to cook more at home or learn to cook if you don’t already, eat meals together and, if possible, grow your own food.  Eat the colors of the rainbow with the myriad of delicious produce offerings available in grocery stores. Buy local in-season produce when you can and make half of your plate fruits and vegetables at every meal.

Last but not least, love people!  After all, does it matter what they eat?

–Karla Klemm is a registered dietitian and a member of the Grand Junction church; photo by UnSplash

20 Apr

INTERVIEW WITH DOUGLAS INGLISH: ON ADMINISTRATION, MINISTRY, AND VWs

Not altogether unknown in his ministerial role for the Rocky Mountain Conference, Douglas Inglish was invited to fill the position of vice president as of April 1, a vacancy left with the retirement of Eric Nelson. 

A Hoosier, Inglish was born in Michigan City, Indiana and graduated from Andrews University in 1982 with a major in history and a minor in political science. After college, he served as boys’ dean at Ozark Adventist Academy for two years. He then left church employment to pursue other work opportunities but returned to teaching a few years later. After a year of teaching, he was given the opportunity to go into full-time ministry as a pastor where he spent the next 25 years serving rural, multi-church districts, multi-pastor metropolitan churches, and churches associated with Adventist institutions, including Sunnydale Academy and Minnetonka Academy. He has a Master’s Degree in political science from the University of Arkansas. Prior to joining the RMC team, Inglish served as the property manager and director of trust services, stewardship, and personal ministries for the Minnesota Conference. He has served as RMC director for planned giving and trust services since 2016.

In an interview with NewsNuggets, Inglish shared a few glimpses into his roles and personal experiences serving the Adventist church in several regions of North America.

Rajmund Dabrowski: How has your life-long ministry as a pastor, teacher, and conference departmental director, including trust and stewardship in RMC, prepared you for this executive leadership role?

Doug Inglish: It’s been good to have been involved with many of those different areas of church and education work, and it was important for me to understand the different positions that our own employees are involved in.

Of course, it’s not always possible to have done something on every church level, and I certainly haven’t, but getting a breadth of experience is important. My experience came from the fact that I’ve not spent my entire church career in one or two conferences. Working with committees at the conference and union levels gave me a familiarity with [administrative] processes, and with different ways of viewing those processes, as well as different philosophies of leadership and functions. This makes [it] possible for me to work with people who have different viewpoints. That background of working with different people gives me a level of comfort in working with pastors and churches.

RD: What are your strengths as a leader? 

DI: There are evangelistic pastors, pastors-builders, and pastors who are peacemakers, but in my pastoral ministry, I was an administrative pastor. We don’t always choose what gifts God gives us, but I discovered that I enjoyed being an administrative pastor.

Sometimes, I would come into a church that had some processes that needed tweaking. For example, almost every church I ever came to, I would ask who’s on your worship committee? And their answer was, “Well, we don’t have one.” So, I would say, “I don’t like being the only one who decides how we worship. Let’s get process to make group decisions.” Or it might be a wedding policy, or streamlining officer selection. Whatever we could do to improve function and further the mission.

NN: How is this going to apply to the church diversity we have in the Conference?

Doug Inglish: I recognize there are different kinds of pastors and congregations out there and it’s important that we figure out their strengths, and the needs of a particular church. Whenever I came to a new church, it took me the better part of two years to really understand what that church’s strengths were, what the community’s needs were and how we line those up.

I’d like to think that I will be including the same approaches when it comes to pastoral placement. It is helpful to understand the church’s needs at that particular time. Are they primed and ready to do some serious evangelism? Are they struggling to get along with each other? Or do they need someone who can organize a capital expenditure, like putting up a new building, or an addition to the church.

NN: When reviewing your weaknesses, what needs a little bit of fine tuning?

Doug Inglish: You know the classic answer, I just give too much of myself. That’s always a hard one to be able to articulate, but I’m aware of it. You know, there are things that I need to address. And one of them, frankly, is a core need of this position. This is a record keeping position. This may sound funny from somebody who’s been working in trust [services] for as long as I have, but details are something that I prefer leaving to somebody else. I will need to work on this and like having someone to keep me on track, keep me focused.

To accomplish all this, and more, there is a need for prayer, and this isn’t the first job that has required that. You need that on two levels. I need time with God. But it’s also gratifying to know that other people are praying for me. I’ve had pastors who have reached out to me since I’ve come into this position for no other reason than to say: I’m praying for you in this new challenge.

NN: We live in a very picturesque area of the United States. In RMC we enjoy the nature in Colorado, Wyoming, and New Mexico. In your administrative role you will travel, travel, travel. Are you scared of such a prospect?

Doug Inglish: I love traveling. One of the reasons that my wife, Susan, doesn’t want to be employed full time is that she can travel with me. Of course, the Rocky Mountain Conference is the ideal place if you enjoy that kind of thing. We drive around and look at each other and say, “What took us so long to get here?” But more than just, you know, enjoying the ride, is when we get there.

When I go to a church I visit the area around it every opportunity I get. This is a beautiful part of the country. We’ve got park passes. As far as the diversity of the region, we are enjoying different cultures and food, as well as typography and climate, and everything else. It’s just an adventure to be able to discover all those wonderful places.

NN: One could say that your predecessor was a walking RMC encyclopedia…

Doug Inglish: That is intimidating because I am not. I have been in this conference in a narrower role, and for not very long. That’s going to take some getting used to for me and the conference. I don’t know everybody. And I don’t know all the situations like Eric did. And I think that was one of the great strengths of his work here for a very long time.

NN: … but being a newcomer to this has some advantages.

Doug Inglish: It gives you a fresh perspective. It gives you a fresh start. I followed some good pastors, but there were always people in those churches just waiting for change, just as some people were ready for a change when I would leave a position. But you have to keep it in perspective; change for the sake of change is seldom worth the effort, and even when changes are needed it’s usually tweaking, not a complete overhaul. I would say that no one should expect a revolution in this department. It isn’t broken, so big and obvious fixes aren’t necessary.

NN: Looking ahead, what are some of the goals you can identify at the beginning of your journey?

Doug Inglish: The answer a year from now will probably be different than what I say now. Because my goal right now for the next six months is to understand my position better so that I can serve better and to learn better the situations that need to be addressed. Currently, there are ongoing situations that I’ve had to jump into the middle of, and my colleagues, Ed Barnett, George Crumley, and Mickey Mallory have had to say, “Well, let’s give you some background.”

NN: Is there such a concept for Doug Inglish as having free time? How do you spend it? How do you recharge yourself?

Doug Inglish: I love working on the house, and you know, I’m a VW freak. Everybody knows that about me, it’s kind of a part of my identity. I spent a better part of 16 years rebuilding an old VW because it was such a basket case. And it took that long because you can only give so much time. While I no longer own it, it’s out there with a plate on it being driven right now. But what I discovered was that doing mechanical things can stress me more than relax me. Doing carpentry relaxes me. So we bought a house that needs some upgrading. And I’m having the time of my life.

And, uh, the bane of my existence currently is Pinterest because once it came out, my wife has some wonderful ideas for what I ought to be doing. My usual initial reaction is I don’t have that skillset, but with her encouragement I’ve done things I never would have tried otherwise. It’s something that we do together that we both really enjoy.

Susan is the idea person. She says, this is what I want to see happen. And I say, I think I know how to make that happen. That’s actually one of my strengths in office, I believe.

NN: Many of us want to know about your family?

Doug Inglish: I will begin with my wife, Susan. We met on a double date. My best friend was taking her out. We’re still friends now, by the way. It was one of those things where from the moment I took her out the first time, there was never any doubt. I was in over my head. It was just the easiest thing in the world to get to know her and make a decision [to marry her]. This is a lifelong partnership. We’re coming up on 39 years this year. We have a daughter, Chelsea, who is the youth pastor at the Madison campus church in Nashville, and a son, Joshua, who is a graphic designer, and his wife teaches third grade at Collegedale Academy.

As for my family background, I’m the son of a pastor and I have two brothers. We’re all close. Family is important to us. It means a great deal. Family, that’s where I give lot of my spare time.

NN: What is your message to the church?

Doug Inglish: We have a mission and when we are fulfilling it, there is joy.

–Rajmund Dabrowski, text and photos

19 Apr

COVID’S TOLL ON MENTAL HEALTH: CAMPION STUDENTS SHARE THEIR STRUGGLES

By Haley Enochs – Loveland, Colorado … Even though Campion Academy has been able to meet in-person for most of the school year, the COVID-19 pandemic has significantly affected the mental health of students.

In the United States, depression, anxiety, and suicidal thought rates have significantly increased within the youth population. The Census Bureau’s Household Pulse Survey found that 56% of young adults reported feeling symptoms of anxiety or depression and 26% experienced suicidal thoughts at some point during the past year.*

Campion students reflect on the affect the pandemic has had on their mental health.

Some say it can be hard to maintain a positive attitude and stay connected with others, especially during times of quarantine. “Even though I don’t always show it, I like being around people,” Ivan Mogaka, Campion junior said. “Lockdown made it very hard to get the social aspect of life and when my friends are not near, I become lonely and sad.”

Ohers, who express themselves through touch or facial expression, find it especially hard to wear a mask and social distance. “COVID has negatively affected my mental health because I am a very touchy guy. My love language is touch, so it feels like I can’t convey my happiness to others right. I love hugs and the distancing is hard on hugs,” said Jared Marcenaro, Campion junior.

Anxiety has increased among some students. “Since the pandemic started, it has been hard for me to stay positive,” a student reflected. “Before COVID, I struggled with anxiety and the pandemic added to the problem. I have struggled with social anxiety the most since I haven’t been able to interact with others regularly. However, God has been the main frame of happiness in my life and I have learned how much I need to lean on Him in difficult times.”

It is helpful knowing there is a better future ahead, regardless of what happens here on earth. “One way I have stayed positive and strong throughout this pandemic is by maintaining my spiritual life. All the changes in plans and schedules have made me realize that God is the only one who can be a constant in our lives. Our circumstances will change, but He never will. I find my strength in that promise,” Kylie Wehling, Campion junior, commented.

–Haley Enochs, is a senior at Campion Academy; photo supplied

Editor’s Note: If you are a student experiencing mental health issues, don’t be afraid to reach out. Speak to a trusted adult, such as a parent, teacher, or guidance counselor or text HOME to 741741 to chat with a live, trained Crisis Counselor.

**Panchal, N., Kamal, R., Cox, C., & Garfield, R. (2021). The Implications of COVID-19 for Mental Health and Substance Use. Kaiser Family Foundation. Retrieved from https://www.kff.org/

19 Apr

OPINION: BY BEHOLDING WE BECOME CHANGED

By Michelle Velbis … As I stand at the door helping my students get out of their cars, before they grab their lunch boxes and backpacks, I take inventory that at least 75% of them have to put away their digital device before they can snatch their things and say goodbye to their parents. When they enter in the door and sit down to wait for school to start, they get their devices out again. Looking down the school hallway, it seems to be a long row of swans with craned necks and intense downward stares.

This isn’t a high school, but a K-8 school, and at the end of the day, the scene is repeated–students not talking to each other, but are focused on that small rectangular device. For those who have forgotten to bring their device I hear the lament, “I am bored.”

As an educator and mother of six children, I have become increasingly alarmed at the behaviors and patterns I have been seeing in my school and in my own family, so I started to do some research. In fact, I became a Certified Digital Health and Wellness Level 1 Professional by The National Institute for Digital Health & Wellness. Unfortunately, the research has opened my eyes to more than I bargained for, and thus I feel a burden to share some of what I have discovered.

Throughout the course and in my research, I was struck with the realization that this boiled down to a spiritual battle and the enemy had found a very effective tool to distract and divide us from our Savior and each other.

The Message version sums it up very well in 1 John 2:15-17, “Don’t love the world’s ways. Don’t love the world’s goods. Love of the world squeezes out love for the Father. Practically everything that goes on in the world—wanting your own way, wanting everything for yourself, wanting to appear important—has nothing to do with the Father. It just isolates you from him.”

Isolation. Isn’t that what Satan wanted for Adam and Eve in the Garden, to isolate and tear them away from their heavenly Father? I think that is still his goal and he has come up with some persuasive and intrusive ways to do just that. What better way than to come up with a device that separates families into their own bedrooms to stare at a little screen and keep them scrolling for hours. A device that keeps us from going outdoors for the fresh air and exercise that we so vitally need to stay physically and emotionally healthy–not to mention the communion that it brings with our Creator. A device that keeps us tethered to what the world thinks instead of our wonderful Counselor.

In The Screwtape Letters, C.S. Lewis’ main demon says to a younger demon, “But do remember, the only thing that matters is the extent to which you separate the man from the Enemy (God). It does not matter how small the sins are provided that their cumulative effect is to edge the man away from the Light and out into the Nothing.”

Satan, the great deceiver, tries to come up with alternative and unfulfilling decoys for all of God’s perfect plans. Dr. Nicholas Kardaras, one of the world’s foremost addiction experts, says in his book Glow Kids that, “Perhaps even more worrisome than the addictive nature of our new digital way of connecting is the idea that electronic connection does not seem to satisfy our deep-seated need for true human contact.” One of the largest groups affected by interactive and immersive technology are our teenagers, who naturally crave those connections.

The Hazelden Betty Ford Foundation, recognized as the world’s leading nonprofit organization helping those addicted to alcohol and other drugs states, “The extreme use of technology can disrupt normal patterns of mood and socialization in teens. Dependency upon social media, gaming, or other platforms to function can become the new and unhealthy ‘normal.’” In fact, they go as far as to say that, “Researchers have found evidence that people who overuse technology may develop similar brain chemistry and neural patterning to those who are addicted to substances.”

When was the last time you saw young people outside playing together? How about even just congregating without a device? How about going to a restaurant and seeing a family without someone looking down at a device? Even in our worship services, there are usually more heads looking down at their devices than up at the speaker.

I don’t say all of these things in condemnation, because I am just as guilty as anyone. But I do feel compelled to ask myself, my family, and my community to have more conversations about this topic and to do some heartfelt inventory on my/our personal relationships and the one with my/our Savior.

In fact, I am challenging myself, my school, and you to a Screen Free Week. The Campaign for a Commercial Free Childhood is leading out in a national screen-free week, from May 3-9.* It was very interesting when I told my middle school students I would be giving them this challenge. One of the reactions I got was, “That’s like asking us to go a week without food!” That passionate response confirmed that we need to take a closer look at how addictive, especially for our young people, these little pocket computers, and other screens, have become.

As I go to the Bible for answers and solutions, I find verses that remind me of the intimate relationship that the Lord wants to have with me. I am also reminded that by beholding Him, I will be changed into being more and more like Him. (2 Corinthians 3:18). My question then is, “What am I beholding?”

My new daily prayer is that I will focus on my relationship with my God, who sees me and loves me and calls me to intimacy, and the relationships with those closest to me. I also pray for strength to not concentrate on what others say through likes and dislikes, YouTube, and other forms of media. I claim this promise and encourage you to do the same, “Come close to God, and God will come close to you” (James 4:8 NLT).

–Michelle Velbis is Springs Adventist Academy Principal; photo by iStock

*For more information and resources, go to <commercialfreechildhood.org/screen-free-week>

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